I shouldn't say this...

Psyclone · Post by **Psyclone** » Mon Apr 09, 2007 4:47 am

Handcuff her to your bed during kinky time and pretend to lose the key so she's stuck with you forever =P

sickkid90 · Post by **sickkid90** » Mon Apr 09, 2007 6:20 am

dude just tell her... she either keeps straight with you... or its over, cuz if she keeps doing it, it will not work out in the future

blazedsubaru · Post by **blazedsubaru** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 7:17 am

We will see what will happen. For now, she's agreed to not party so much. And we've just been chilling. And I have been hanging out with my ex just to spite her a little. I haven't seen my ex is ages, I can still see why I'm not with her anymore, but she's not so bad anymore.

Certified-Nutter · Post by **Certified-Nutter** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 10:45 am

blazedsubaru wrote:but she's not so bad anymore.

just think about what broke you up, haha
well depends how trivial or large the matter was i guess?

Post by **(weedguru)scarf** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 1:20 pm

Man she sounds like a clone of a girl i know... i call her gz...
she was incredibly sweet... gorgeous... fun loving... the works...
then in year 10-sophmore/junior (about 7 years ago) shit started to get a little crazy....
she would binge drink... and then make out with 3 or 4 guys... then it became fucking someone
at every party....
This took such a toll on her self esteem... (such complex issues... why did she try and boost her self esteem
with actions that she knew would only make things worse etc)....that she ended up becoming what she confessed
to be "samurai"... her childish cover up for self mutilation... in private... in public... it didnt matter...
now 7 years down the track... we barely speak anymore... we have mutual friends....
she is heavily into the Melbourne club and drug scene... snorts/pops/smokes whatever she can get her
hands on... she is unable to show her arms in public due to the horrendous scars... and
she is unable to hold onto a relationship because of her insecurities.... and the inability to let
anyone close enough to her to change her....

the point to all of this man... you need to make a decision... and think carefully about it...
you're too young to say.. this is the girl i want to be with forever...
but do you sit back and watch her ruin her life?
do you cut all connections with her...???
or do you try and help her??? (you cant do this one by yourself... you need to get people to help... even professional help)

im not saying one or two of these choices are better or worse than any other... but i think you need to make
a decision soon... even for your own sake

good luck mate...

hit me up if you need to talk about it...
we are all stoners after all

peace
scarf

FIRE!!! · Post by **FIRE!!!** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 5:30 pm

Ahh man I'm having some serious girl problems myself. I think it might be hard, but you have to think about what's best for you, and if she's not the type who wants commitment like you do, you should consider just moving on. It's always hard to believe right at the breakup but there are alot more girls out there waiting for you.

MatteN · Post by **MatteN** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 6:49 pm

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

My ex-gf cheated on an old boyfriend in the past and told me about it. She and her old boyfriend were on a break, and she cheated on him when they were on a week break...then when i wanted to end the relationship, she wanted to be go on a "break" and i told her straight up that i can't trust her during a break so it's over.

don't let anyone fool you, once a cheater. always a cheater

blazedsubaru · Post by **blazedsubaru** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 7:15 pm

Oh well...
It's hard to me to let shit go which is my problem.

I can't move on until I meet the next girl, and even then it will take a minute. Which could be a good thing, or a bad thing.

Rory · Post by **Rory** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 11:24 pm

blazedsubaru wrote:We will see what will happen. For now, she's agreed to not party so much. And we've just been chilling. And I have been hanging out with my ex just to spite her a little. I haven't seen my ex is ages, I can still see why I'm not with her anymore, but she's not so bad anymore.

This makes me think you may just be hurting for a relationship in general, and you're reaching out for her since she's so close already. In any case, I'd say only you can judge weather to continue trying to form a relationship with this girl. I wouldn't, but it varies from person to person, obviously.

HeLLa-LifTeD · Post by **HeLLa-LifTeD** » Wed Apr 11, 2007 10:15 am

cuz... fuck bitches man u no wut im sayin, most of them are liers and shit just like guys are especially the fine ones... wut u need to do is get u a female that keeps it REAL, they aint hard to find if u into black women. its so easy to tell if a girls playin u man, they try to make everything seem like its too good to be true, when ur around women u need to be tha boss let her know from tha start that its not coo to be makin out with other guys and let her know that your all she needs and fuck/make out with her like its a fukn hardcore porno flick... u gotta be better or atleast have 1 special quality that no other guy has and make sure she sees that man and make sure she doesnt forget, show no weaknesses(never let em see u sweat) its easy if u got tha kinda charisma like mines... lol and p.s. trust no bitch unless U feel that she really loves you, dont open up to her to much also u gotta remain sort of a mystery man or else shell get bored, especially if shes tha type of girl thats goal orientated. u need to be able to see things as they really are cuz alot of real pretty girls are real good manipulators n liers. and it sounds like u lack communication with this girl

blazedsubaru · Post by **blazedsubaru** » Wed Apr 11, 2007 8:10 pm

So I went out with them last night.
Me, this girl, another girl, and my buddy.

We went to her house and started drinking and smoking bowls. The other girl was getting very horny drunk and was feeling up on my buddy who is her ex. He pushed her off and she went right to this other girl and they made out all night. It was soo entertaining. The whole time I was talking to this other girl who was actually just down the street at this party. I might go hang out with that girl soon, just go get another perspective.

Post by **(weedguru)scarf** » Fri Apr 13, 2007 10:12 am

new perspectives are always good

weedguru tom · Post by **weedguru tom** » Fri Apr 13, 2007 7:35 pm

NEVER FEEL SORRY FOR A CHICK ITS A WOMEN PLOY .. meh you`ll learn

sickkid90 · Post by **sickkid90** » Sat Apr 14, 2007 7:50 am

wait, blazed subaru... your girl was making out with another your freind's ex?????? LOL

blazedsubaru · Post by **blazedsubaru** » Sat Apr 14, 2007 8:18 pm

Yeah, a lot of the girls I hang out with are pretty open to kissing other girls. Usually only when drunk, but sometimes just for fun. It's pretty awesome.

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