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aight so me and my gf been going out for like a yr....but everytime we kick it we kick it with her friend....and im like the only guy and her and her friend or sometimes 3 of her friends but yea....like i kno them all but everytime im aorund her and her friends i get shy and dont kno what to say...could anyone help me on like how to get that shy off of me?.................................................O AND BTW IM NEW TO WEEDGURU HI :D
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Post by AbbyRoad »

youve been goign out for a year and her friends are always around? how young are you guys? if your 16 i understand. she may be afriad of a pysichal relationship if you dont already have one.
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Post by Mate »

i get these a lot.
You know what ?
Just fuckin say anything that could involve their opinion, and discuss about that.
whatever the fuck

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were 14....lol
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Post by weedguru+chrisisonfire »

ah, you have much time to grow my son.
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that reminded me about a class.. the teacher showed us a movie and hes like... ill try to fast forward about th part where the man and woman "wrestle" and im like "Is that what they call it these days?"


me and my freind think he smokes weed.. the teacher... hes hilarious (AP European history teacher in fact) and hes always like "good times;... good times... or.... Hippe letuce this hippie letuce that then after drug dogs went into his room hes like "boooyaaaahhh they didnt find my stash: thats the best class sometimes
I don't breath unless its weed.

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way to be not embaressed, smoke more! :D always works for me, i cant always stand up or form proper words, but everything else is good :D lol
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Post by (weedguru)scarf »

weedguru+chrisisonfire wrote:ah, you have much time to grow my son.
yep.... dont rush.... you have years man
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Certified-Nutter wrote:way to be not embaressed, smoke more! :D always works for me, i cant always stand up or form proper words, but everything else is good :D lol
I wouldn't rush that either....
Just say whatever the fuck you feel like saying. If you feel like they are ridiculous, say you guys are funny. If you feel like what they say is boring, start talking about masturbation and how they should be opened about it. Provoke. Whatever the hell, you shouldn't feel threatened - only confident.
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Post by MatteN »

women love confidence, i even like confident women lol.

just makes you feel good to be with someone who likes themselves, it makes them easier to like
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Post by Weedguru_RyaNayR »

yeah, smoke some weed, or have a few beers or something. but if you drink just dont drink a lot and get stupid, cause that just makes you look like an idiot. and you don't want that.

but i would say just be yourself, don't get paranoid and close up and shit cause you don't talk to them a lot.

what else... oh yeah, be yourself, thats important. just start a conversation or something i dunno. theres some pretty good advice above.
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cliso wrote:were 14....lol
then dont even worry honey
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Post by Certified-Nutter »

ur 14, sit back n relax.
ppl say be confident, but that doesnt necissarily mean talking without a stutter and shit, u can b confident by just sitting back and taking it all in, just gotta be comfortable with what ur doing. ifit helps, dont think of them as girls, just think of them as mates, it often helps me to talk to girls, course this is not good for picking up, it just lands u with shitloads of female 'friends' (oh the 'friend' status)
just remember, u will treasure these times when ur older, so make the most of them while u still got em :)
(also, get very stoned =D lol)
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Post by WeedGuru_Flow »

Life starts at sixteen, when girls get boobs and stuff


j/k


Really,at 14 years old I was interested in girls more than I was when I was 11 but it's not like I had the whole 'let's get together and start a relationship' thing, that started at 16.


proof that youth matures way to soon these days, we are the last good generation :'(
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