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plainoldmaryjane
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I feel like a cliche, but...

Post by plainoldmaryjane »

I noticed there are alot of questions about girl/boyfriend trouble, and I have the same. there is this girl that was in a few classes last semester and i have gone to school with (not always been close friends but decently well acquainted) for like 10 years. I like her but i dont know how to approach her cause weve been pretty tight for the last couple months and so far were just friends, and i dont know how she would take the change over to 'special friends'
any advice would be sick!
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Post by roskilde »

well, dont rush into anything, you don't want to ruin the friendship. Friendship is #1 and that is how most loving relationships start out...as friends.

But i guess the only thing you can do is tell her how you feel. I mean you can just be like look I need to tell you something that I just can't hide anymore (considering its eating you inside right?) then just go on and tell her. that's all really that you could do to make yourself feel better inside. I mean I know how it feels to like someone and not tell them. It eats you inside until you actually come out and tell them and you end up feeling better about it.

wow i rambled there sorry. hope that helps!
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Post by Ikku »

If you're really her friend, she will either say she wants to too, or she doesn't want to ruin your friendship. Don't worry about looking like an ass, you won't.
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Post by (weedguru)scarf »

yeah take the chance... if she says no... then just make sure u dont act like a dick... keep the friendship
and if you think that once she says no you wont be putting the effort in to be friends with her then maybe you shouldnt
ask her in the first place.

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