i'm in a bit of a pickle here, dick

andriaSRH · Post by **andriaSRH** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 9:30 am

there's this guy that i like, and i think he likes me too. i can't tell if he sees me as one of his buddies or something more. he tells me our relationship will go further as soon as he gets a job and moves out of his parents house.
i don't know if i should believe him though. he calls other girls when i'm around, and he even shares his sex stories, lol. i'm not trying to hear all that.
should i just leave him alone and forget about it, or stick around and see what the future holds?

Certified-Nutter · Post by **Certified-Nutter** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 9:38 am

yes, that is a bit of a pickle
have been in similar situations myself (tho the other way round)
myself i just dont do anything, i dont wait, and i dont leave, i just stay as friends, if anything will happen it will happen, i say, and also prevents ye being on ur toes all the time, if u wna have a laugh tho, u can always start sharing sex stories around him? might put him on same ground as u?
well hope this helps, take care

Dakine · Post by **Dakine** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 3:45 pm

if he wants you, he'll come to you. as all my female friends tell me, guys are dicks.

AbbyRoad · Post by **AbbyRoad** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 4:41 pm

dont wait around for him. if he says hes waiting for a bunch of things to change in his life, dont wait for him. if someone else comes around go for them. but thats just my advice.

Dakine · Post by **Dakine** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 6:52 pm

abby wrote:dont wait around for him. if he says hes waiting for a bunch of things to change in his life, dont wait for him. if someone else comes around go for them. but thats just my advice.

You're a girl, you should know best.

Rory · Post by **Rory** » Fri Dec 22, 2006 8:11 pm

Just because he talks about his past sexual experiences does not mean he doesn't want you. He's either trying to impress you or just wants some funny conversation. Me and my girlfriend talk about past sex alot, it's just funny sometimes. I would just ask him flat out "do you want me or not and if no, do you still want to be friends". Lots of dudes have trouble getting up the balls to just say how they feel so you gotta do it for us sometimes

Certified-Nutter · Post by **Certified-Nutter** » Sun Dec 24, 2006 1:31 am

Rory wrote:Just because he talks about his past sexual experiences does not mean he doesn't want you. He's either trying to impress you or just wants some funny conversation. Me and my girlfriend talk about past sex alot, it's just funny sometimes. I would just ask him flat out "do you want me or not and if no, do you still want to be friends". Lots of dudes have trouble getting up the balls to just say how they feel so you gotta do it for us sometimes

true that, i am a perfect example at gettin the balls of askin someone out, it is really nerv-racking like... altho i personaly would seek talkin of past sex as an tack to impress someone (some people may) i usualy tend to show of my drug/alcohol tolerance to try n impress women, tho through alot of trial and error, i kno it doesnt work... yet why i still try it i dont kno? lol

SpRi7e · Post by **SpRi7e** » Sun Dec 24, 2006 5:16 am

certified-nutter wrote:
Rory wrote:Just because he talks about his past sexual experiences does not mean he doesn't want you. He's either trying to impress you or just wants some funny conversation. Me and my girlfriend talk about past sex alot, it's just funny sometimes. I would just ask him flat out "do you want me or not and if no, do you still want to be friends". Lots of dudes have trouble getting up the balls to just say how they feel so you gotta do it for us sometimes
true that, i am a perfect example at gettin the balls of askin someone out, it is really nerv-racking like... altho i personaly would seek talkin of past sex as an tack to impress someone (some people may) i usualy tend to show of my drug/alcohol tolerance to try n impress women, tho through alot of trial and error, i kno it doesnt work... yet why i still try it i dont kno? lol

because were guys, lol

FIRE!!! · Post by **FIRE!!!** » Sun Dec 24, 2006 5:36 pm

sofaqueenhi wrote:there's this guy that i like, and i think he likes me too. i can't tell if he sees me as one of his buddies or something more. he tells me our relationship will go further as soon as he gets a job and moves out of his parents house.
i don't know if i should believe him though. he calls other girls when i'm around, and he even shares his sex stories, lol. i'm not trying to hear all that.
should i just leave him alone and forget about it, or stick around and see what the future holds?

Well suck his face. If he doesn't fight back you're probably in good terms. I know if a girl started making out with me out of nowhere I would definitely go for it if I was interested in her. And what's the worst that could happen? He could say no. Oh well.

kevavekog258 · Post by **kevavekog258** » Sun Dec 24, 2006 9:57 pm

Well there are many things I could say, but I think the best thing right now would be to just tell him flat out exactly how you feel. Then you'll know. Just remember though don't "put out" to MAKE him like you or something like that, because in the end if it doesn't work out you'll probably feel used...which is a terrible thing =(

AbbyRoad · Post by **AbbyRoad** » Mon Dec 25, 2006 1:15 am

wait til your both drunk!!!! then ask, it will be easier because you wont feel shy or awkward asking. my bf told me he liked me when he was drunk, after someone else told him i kinda liked him.

Certified-Nutter · Post by **Certified-Nutter** » Mon Dec 25, 2006 1:55 am

abby wrote:wait til your both drunk!!!! then ask, it will be easier because you wont feel shy or awkward asking. my bf told me he liked me when he was drunk, after someone else told him i kinda liked him.

isit just me or does it sound evil to get it outta them when drunk, haha, not meanin to nit pick, but i probably wouldnt believe it if a woman told it me when drunk (but then mayb thats just me, sorry to critisize, no offense intended)

Dakine · Post by **Dakine** » Mon Dec 25, 2006 9:04 am

I would, because things like that dont justcome from nowhere, even when drunk.

Certified-Nutter · Post by **Certified-Nutter** » Mon Dec 25, 2006 12:24 pm

Dakine wrote:I would, because things like that dont justcome from nowhere, even when drunk.

true as that may be, how many times have u said stuff when your drunk that makes no sense, or for the life of you, you could not figure out why u did it, i kno i have, more times than i can count on both my hands, lol... also, when i am drunk i alwayd get in an 'i love you' state, n if someone asked me or sed it too me, i wud automaticaly assume as in the way drunks always do (me) and start goin ahh i love you too (nomatter who it was) anyway! i have rambled long enough, take care

hubcap · Post by **hubcap** » Thu Dec 28, 2006 2:27 pm

abby wrote:wait til your both drunk!!!! then ask, it will be easier because you wont feel shy or awkward asking. my bf told me he liked me when he was drunk, after someone else told him i kinda liked him.

GENIUS! Thats a brilliant idea, when your both drunk tell him you like him and if he don't it don't even matter. Just say pssssht, i was drunk

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