When all is said and done what are you gonna say

[Slim_Joules]

yeah me has had my gf hassiling me to give up bud and as an old school this is all a lie i just think yeah right the day you get your bare sexy sister involved in our relationship (if you no wat i mean) is the day i give up and then she started on about like im gonna go to hell and i was thinking when i die and im standing in front of god or whoever is there and he says what did i do with my live i dont want to i dont want to say oh i had a very healthy careful live i wanna say yeah blud me had a fat live get me just chill blazin and doning fun shit you know. well i was just wondering what everyone thinks u know get some perspective on all this crap.

[PuffPuffGive]

I can almost see where your gf is comming from wanting you to be healthy and all but if your like me then you just have to let her know that you quitting indefinatley just isnt going to happen no matter what and that theres little she could do about it, from my own experience lying about quitting dosnt work either, you just need to choose quit or not, from the way you sound you will choose the latter which is perfectly fine but know that it could mean the end to some relationships (but then maybe those relationships werent meant to be anyways) So just tell her up front that your not going to quit (in as nice a way as possible)

[Slim_Joules]

i see what ur sayin but we have been together for ages(3 years) and i just think she is a bit of a hypocrit (i know i cant spell) because she used to toke and to be honest i love her and normally this bud thing ent a problem its just she started sayin about a week ago so i was think what if i just let her cool down and and then see what she is saying you get me

[weedguru tom]

giong thru te same thing, ive quit bud, smoke a few puffs on the odd joint now, my gf was the source lol. then when she wanted somebud, im like ugh ok il get some nd its fine, week later imliek i want ajoint, i get demon eyes, the lot yanno, take it from me, toke with your buddys whenoyur not around her, thats what i do in college.

[Slim_Joules]

that is a good idea i think she will carm down after a few days