AbbyRoad wrote:thanks guys for making those assumptions about me.
i really appreciate it.
i am two years older than my ex, and i didnt feel like we were going in the same direction. after months of growing apart and losing all sex drive on my part. i decided to end it. it was a painful experience for both of us. like i still loved him but i wasnt in love with him. i felt like we were just friends. but i will always appreciate the self confidence my ex helped me foster, and a love of spicy food.
i meet my current bf months after the breakup. he was very warm and outgoing, and in college at the time.
but those things changed after we started living together
my apologies abby.. i wasnt trying to make any assumptions.... merely asking a question...
i am interested, as it doesnt seem as though the guy youre with now is as stable and caring as your previous guy...
but you did explain your emotions, and physicality is indeed a big part of all functional relationships...
my bad...