I got caught...

[blazedsubaru]

This is terrible.
All my friends want to do the most fun things this weekend. One kid wants to go 4 wheeling. Another wants to go on a road trip to go see a rally. Another group went camping tonight. I was supposed to be with them, we planned it. It was going to be Miranda and I, and Nick and Alyssa. We were getting e and going camping. They just showed up and picked up my tent and came in to say hi to my mom and she just gave them a dirty look. Miranda told me how she reeeeaaaallllly wanted me to come tonight and it just made me so sad.

I thought I was out of trouble, I didn't think it would be so bad.
I was wrong.

Everything just fucking hurts. I think I love her.

[blazedsubaru]

So... I just got to talk to my buddy and to pick up my tent.
Wow, I'm really mad I didn't get to go.
They ended up in a half constructed house all night rubbing lotion on eachother, pretty much naked.
I don't like this.
When I left to go pick up my tent I was like "Hey mom, I'm gonna go get my tent, I'll be back in a while" and she's like "Make him come here and drop it off." I told her that was bullshit. She told me to be back in 10 minutes (his house is like 5 minutes round trip) and so I told her I would be back in 25 minutes and she like was yelling at me and I was like "Whatever, I'm leaving" and left. I pick up my tent, charge my cell phone a little, and talk to Miranda on the phone. I come home, the tent is still in my car, and I walk in the back door. My mom starts in on me immediatly. "Where is your tent, where did you really go!?"

She's driving me fucking insane.

[blazedsubaru]

Wow, it just hit me how fucked up everything has been for me lately.
I have been alone since basically sophomore year, and I should be a senior. I don't go to school anymore, I have no job, no girlfriend, my mom doesn't trust me anymore, I can't even see my friends anymore, my car isn't running right now, my room is a peice of shit (I spend all my time here now...) the car I drive now, when I drive, is also a peice of shit.

Every time I drive now and I'm by myself I think "What if I went really fast and hit a pole" and I actually start driving 70-80 mph...right next to power poles and stuff. I just don't care anymore.

I hate everything. There is only one person I am 100% not mad at. That is Miranda. I seriously love that girl, even though I really shouldn't. I really shouldn't. I could never be with her. I realized, if I got with her I would probably get sick of her within a month.

[WeedGuru_Flow]

mmm, quit smoking for a little while until things blow over, keep as much contactas you can with Miranda, girlfriends rule.

Oh, and all that suicide crap, that's not like you man try to talk to your mom about the entire ordeal and how she's not really helping anything or anyone by keeping you grounded and not allowing you to go see friends.

don't give in!

[asswipe]

No don't give in, thats the stupidest thing you can do.! serious..

And this is just another example, I've seen this before. Parents think they can control their kid and guide them to a happy life with punishment like this. Ok she tries to help you stay of drugs, but in your life (and many many lifes of pot-smoking people), smoking weed means alot more than getting high. It involves your friends, the ppl you hang out with, the way you think. If your mother thinks that she can change you into a "good boy that doesn't smoke pot" means she has to change your lifestyle. And see what happens after just a few days with a paranoid mother and not-seeing your friends. Did it help? It looks to me that it only worsened the situation. She knows your gonna smoke up again anyway. Maybe it is a way to realize you have to do something with your life, but its your life, and parents have to realize that they can't control their kids anymore.

Anyway good luck on the situation, and oh I also think your father has to do some explanation to your mom, I mean, he knows what it is like. Theres no better person in your situation that can explain the whole thing better than you or your dad. And if she's not trustin you anymore that might be a good option.

btw, don't take this too personal, I've had quite a few friends in the same kind of situation and this is just a sketched version of how paranoid parents can fuck up their child 10 times worse than drugs (weed) does.

[Dr. Greenthumb]

To me it sounds like your world is caving in around and I know from experience that it can be a really scary feeling.

I'd recomend taking some time to sort things out and figure out what you want to do with your life. And don't worry so much that you're not in a relationship, I think it would only make the situation worse for you with all the drama that relationships bring about.

Try taking care of one problem at a time and getting it out of the way. That way at least you're making some positive progress and I bet that as soon as that starts happening you'll feel better about yourself and your situation.

I know I don't know you aside from what you write on here, but I relate to alot of the stuff you're saying and I know it can really suck. But I also know that despite how much it sucks right now, it'll get better as soon as you start taking control of your life.

[coronthian]

you're lucky you only got that punishment man. i've been busted 3 times, once with my parents and the other two with my school. i shouldn't be in my school anymore but for some reason i'm still there. have to see a counselor, she's cool though.. she doesn't mind me blazing as long as i don't get caught again.

anyways, do stuff that goes against your mum's understanding of what a "stoner" is. I'm assuming that she thinks you're unproductive as a stoner, like my mum. So do productive things; like learn to cook if you don't know already, be involved in a sport, get a job, or work at an orphanage... let her see that you can still maintain when you blaze, so she'll know that you're not some dysfunctional bum that herb smokers are perceived to be.

[Vinyl]

just start arguing how she had to violate your privacy in order to know that you smoke. that would stop or at least slow my parents down. then do what some said think it might ahve been you just try to show them that it hasnt affected you negatively

[Jay212]

you guys are trying to teach him how to argue with his mom... this whole things ridiculous lol.

[blazinw33n]

come on dude, everything goes away and whenever you notice, you'll be puffin again with your friends. so forget that suicide bullshit and go on man...

[Just Starting]

hmmm i got caught 3 days after i started and my dad smokes so he didnt do anything his GF said well you know your gonna have to share some with him.... i said no i wasnt so she went off on me.... weird thing is she used to be a icehead when she was younge.... and btw dont do e it can fuck you up bad and kill you from over hydration

[Cap'n Peg Leg]

hmmm i got caught 3 days after i started and my dad smokes so he didnt do anything his GF said well you know your gonna have to share some with him.... i said no i wasnt so she went off on me.... weird thing is she used to be a icehead when she was younge.... and btw dont do e it can fuck you up bad and kill you from over hydration

bah?! why wouldnt you share with your dad? that would be funnier than hell, smokin with one of my parents =D

but back to the main topic
dude, it sucks, i feel for ya, but trust me on this one, suicide is not the way to go, I know it is used all the time and is really dumb sounding, but its a permenant solution to a temporary problem. Just gotta go with the flow, your dad should be standing up for you a bit more, call him out on that, but in private, not with your mom there

[logically]

This thread is old!

lol...

but i was reading through it and I thought it was cool what a positive thread this was.

No one called him dumbass or made jokes about his situation.... people just supported him and gave him good advice.


it was a nice thread to read through...

I wanted to share it with the rest of you who may be really bored.

I wonder what blazed subaru is up to? he always seemed like an interesting fellow...

[Weedguru Higher]

No thread here is old enough to not merit being revived!

[(weedguru)scarf]

This thread is old!


I wonder what blazed subaru is up to? he always seemed like an interesting fellow...

yeah true i did enjoy his posts