Dont Laugh....Okay you can laugh.

[Dulleffects]

Well, apparantley, I don't meet girls very well. I haven't gotten laid in almost a year, don't really care about that, would be nice to have at least a little female contact once in awhile, but I digress. I don't really drink, so I don't really meet women that way, most of my friends are guys, and the girls I'm friends with are not the least bit attractive. I don't go to school, I live with my parents, and I'm still looking for work. I guess I'm a little self concious, but anyways. I really wanna meet some fucking girls, just like, even to be friends, so I don't have to chill with weiner all the time, cause it gets boring. So, my question is, what's a good way/place/strategy to girl meeting/talking to? Should I just take up drinkin again? Help would help. Thanks.

[cutthecashflow]

Find a girl doing some activity that you enjoy whether it be bowling, movie going or whatever. I'm sure some of your female friends may have friends that are available and just be yourself dude. Women can smell unconfidence from a mile away and it is a major turn off. I'm not suggesting being cocky/arrogant, just hold yourself to a high standard and speak with a confident tone. Everyone gets rejected from time to time, so being able to handle a girl saying no to wanting to hang out with you is all a part of the deal. Once you can deal with rejection and maintain confidence you should not have too much trouble.

As for meeting a girl drinking, I agree with you it's not the way I like to meet girls either. The worst place to find yourself a gf is at the bar, if you only hang out together when intoxicated how are you supposed to get along sober? This is where state dependent learning comes into play, but that is for another topic (it may work for some of you, but in my personal experience it's not worth the baggage).

Not sure if any of this is of use to you or not, but best of luck in your endeavors and I wish you well.

[andriaSRH]

Why would we laugh?

All my friends are friends of friends of friends or people I meet at work :/

You could always go to coffee shops or head shops. It all just depends on what kind of girl you want to meet. Go to concerts if you wanna meet a fun girl, go to the library if you want to meet a smart girl. Do stuff that you enjoy so it won't be a horrible experience for you.

Like cut said, girls can sense confidence from miles away. He says don't act cocky..I say you should lol. At least a little.

If you see a cute girl chat her up, ask her questions about herself, tell her that she is pretty..stuff like that. Just be yourself..just more cocky and curious.

How do you fair in the looks department?

[Dulleffects]

Not bad. I look...cool. I have one jet blue eye and one green eye. Pretty average. I lack confidence, I always kind of see myself as not good enough to chat up girls I think are attractive. I guess that's like cut said, I gotta learn to deal with rejection, or possibly not count myself out before the bell rings. Do girls really like it when a random guy walks up and says "You're absolutely gorgeous", some people say yay, others nay. Anyways, Thanks for the suggestions so far guys.

[Bubbles]

this is how you get laid: http://www.smosh.com/videos/anthonys-love-song

[Dulleffects]

ROFLCOPTER

[jcube69]

Not bad. I look...cool. I have one jet blue eye and one green eye. Pretty average. I lack confidence, I always kind of see myself as not good enough to chat up girls I think are attractive. I guess that's like cut said, I gotta learn to deal with rejection, or possibly not count myself out before the bell rings. Do girls really like it when a random guy walks up and says "You're absolutely gorgeous", some people say yay, others nay. Anyways, Thanks for the suggestions so far guys.

lol your doing better in that department than me >.> but i have moral issues with hookups/one night stands and havnt ever been in a long relationship so more my own fault i suppose.....i just think intamacy should be more personal than lets hook up or lets get wasted and screw the first person with legs....hell even when i've been blackout wasted i still refuse its somthing i wont budge on.


i have that whol random stranger complex too but you can try i remember this one time at walmart me and my bro saw this good looking girl in front of us picking up left for dead (we had just rented it and been kicking some zombie ass) so we talkd to her about l4d and her mom was talking too and when she leaves her mom is all like yea you boys can come over anytime and play (walking away at this point im paying for the shit we bought and me bro follows them) and then hes all like how can i do that without a number?...pissed me off -.-

moral of the story? talk to them and ask for a number to hang dont have to go on a date right away..i think..

[Blunt Docta]

just find chicks that smoke weed,and if you got good bud , just toke with em

[jcube69]

just find chicks that smoke weed,and if you got good bud , just toke with em

thats about hard as finding gaming women...adn both is like a legend -.-

[Dulleffects]

Yeah. I don't know. I like stoner chicks, fuck if only I could find a stoner chick, who doesn't look all greasy, that smokes as much as I do. Yaaarrr.

[Blunt Docta]

all the stoner chicks i find are fine
maybe just cuz they are at my school

[logically]

i would actually prefer a woman who doesn't smoke, but doesn't care if i smoke.

that would be ideal for me.

as for meeting girls... ummmm....

Do you go to school? Because getting to know girls at school is the easiest way man. Talk to chicks who are in your classes. maybe you will hit it off.


If your not in school, join something you are interested in, a book club if you like reading or martial arts classes if you dig those etc... You are bound to meet chicks at those. Depending on where you live there are clubs and gatherings for almost any kind of activity these days. Not only will you be doing something fun, but you will be making friends with new people and meeting girls.

[Blunt Docta]

yeah dude school is the easiest way to find chicks

[Grrrl]

If I were a guy scouting for a potential female, I'd go places where I am likely to find a woman who fits my criteria (like gigs or libraries) or where there will probably be a lot of females, like a milkshake/ice cream place or a mall or something.
Dont go up to random girls telling them you think they are hot, just try and start a regular conversation, girls dont like a try hard, and if you launch straight in with the compliments too heavy she will just think you want to get laid and nothing more. Just go for small talk, like if you're in a music/games store or library and she picks something up, make a comment about it, just try and establish some common ground and if it goes well introduce yourself properly to each other, and give her your number, dont ask for hers, girls usually like to be in control of things and you already made the first move so let her take over from there and just see how things go.

[Gorecore]

I'm surprised and relieved that nobody has mentioned meeting women online. I've tried that 3 or 4 times in the past and they were all pretty much psycho and nothing like their online personalities.

I've asked out women at my places of employment. 9 times out of 10 I was shot down in flames, and I suppose that's okay. I'd hate to have to work with someone if the relationship didn't work out and ended badly.

Heh, everyone's ideas are awesome! I have nothing much else to input. I've been single since February and starting to get a case of the lonelies and "damn, it'd be nice to have a good shag right now".