Men wants sex, Women wants money

[Weedguru_Fire_Inside]

haha, so the original thread got jacked, now the continuation has been jacked too? lol

anyway, everybody wants different things from life, but there are some things we all want. Sex is something we all want sometimes. I dunno about money, but i definitely want it sometimes.

At the end of the day, i just want what most men want.... More. I want more than i have right now. I'm happy with what i've got but it doesn't stop me wanting more.

I'm a strange creature. Knowing that capitolism fucks the world but i cannot stop the decadent drive inside.

[Gorecore]

[Mate]

Knowing that capitolism fucks the world but i cannot stop the decadent drive inside.

[Certified-Nutter]

wow ctcf that was one hella post.
took me like a whole 10 mins to read, and as interested as i am by psychological and biological reasoning to attraction and mating, it really did go away from discussing men wanting sex and women wanting money.

... ok right e-o, after 4 huge rewrites, i have decided that as a man i cant understand women, and therefore i cannot speak on their point of view and focul points towards dating.
i will say that women wanting money is kind of true, but not in a bitchy, superfluos way.
psychologicaly women are designed to look for men who well best father their offspring and having money is a hella good start when it comes to parenting, not everything, but its definately a factor.
but thats all i will say on that, because many a man has tried to contemplate women, and i am not sure if any has succeded (you confusing things you!! lol)

but as for the man side, well i can at least tell u my view of it.

True

as much as i hate to admit it, the more i have thought about it through the 4 drafts i just made and thought better of, everything really does revolve around sex.
I am not saying i am the kind of guy that when talking to a girl all i wanna do it have sex and have it asap, but there is definately almost always some sexual interest, does not mean i intend to persue it.
But tbh everything i will talk to a girl about will be focused about learning if she is the kind of person i want to have sex with.
the more i am thinkin on this subject the more i am scaring myself... its like my whole life is centred around sex
how? well...
i want a job so i can get money so i can get a girlfriend so i can have sex.

every conversation i have i aim to learn something, whether it be facts or experiance of interaction all so that i can use the information to better find a mate... sex.

most of the learning i do is either to go towards a job, which we already know where it leads, or like before, to use it to better find a mate or even impress potential mates, so again ultimately leading to sex lol

i would probably live out of one set of cloths and never shave or cut my hair ifit wasnt for it would eliminate me as a potential mate and crush any hopes of sex...

i keep in shape just as a way to attract a mate, but, aha, martial arts... i think i have found something i do which isnt for sex but i guess one of the reasons is so that when i find me a girl i am able to protect her, thus ensuring the survivability of my mate and ensuring continued sex. pfft never mind martial arts is for it aswell >.<

and then there is the old faverote of how men think of sex once every 7 seconds....
One.Two.Three.Four.Five.Sex.Seven
lol
wow this turned out pretty big aswell... damn, i've bin like an hour

oh wells, theres my very honest portrayal of how men are obsessed with sex, lol...
im not a horid shallow person... honest :p

[cutthecashflow]

^You just need to pass on your genes mate, the esscence of evolution! And yes, I'm sorry for getting off topic I just started going...

[weedguru_animal]

wow ctcf that was one hella post.
took me like a whole 10 mins to read, and as interested as i am by psychological and biological reasoning to attraction and mating, it really did go away from discussing men wanting sex and women wanting money.

... ok right e-o, after 4 huge rewrites, i have decided that as a man i cant understand women, and therefore i cannot speak on their point of view and focul points towards dating.
i will say that women wanting money is kind of true, but not in a bitchy, superfluos way.
psychologicaly women are designed to look for men who well best father their offspring and having money is a hella good start when it comes to parenting, not everything, but its definately a factor.
but thats all i will say on that, because many a man has tried to contemplate women, and i am not sure if any has succeded (you confusing things you!! lol)

but as for the man side, well i can at least tell u my view of it.

True

as much as i hate to admit it, the more i have thought about it through the 4 drafts i just made and thought better of, everything really does revolve around sex.
I am not saying i am the kind of guy that when talking to a girl all i wanna do it have sex and have it asap, but there is definately almost always some sexual interest, does not mean i intend to persue it.
But tbh everything i will talk to a girl about will be focused about learning if she is the kind of person i want to have sex with.
the more i am thinkin on this subject the more i am scaring myself... its like my whole life is centred around sex
how? well...
i want a job so i can get money so i can get a girlfriend so i can have sex.

every conversation i have i aim to learn something, whether it be facts or experiance of interaction all so that i can use the information to better find a mate... sex.

most of the learning i do is either to go towards a job, which we already know where it leads, or like before, to use it to better find a mate or even impress potential mates, so again ultimately leading to sex lol

i would probably live out of one set of cloths and never shave or cut my hair ifit wasnt for it would eliminate me as a potential mate and crush any hopes of sex...

i keep in shape just as a way to attract a mate, but, aha, martial arts... i think i have found something i do which isnt for sex but i guess one of the reasons is so that when i find me a girl i am able to protect her, thus ensuring the survivability of my mate and ensuring continued sex. pfft never mind martial arts is for it aswell >.<

and then there is the old faverote of how men think of sex once every 7 seconds....
One.Two.Three.Four.Five.Sex.Seven
lol
wow this turned out pretty big aswell... damn, i've bin like an hour

oh wells, theres my very honest portrayal of how men are obsessed with sex, lol...
im not a horid shallow person... honest :p

my dearest little brother, the first part of your tirade that i embossed in bold, looks fat better now, as in 'women who look for me'...But I am adding a correction to that part of your rant, as I assume you mean biologically instintcively, for pyshology is very different indeed. The mind seeks very different things to the body, to the heart, to the spirit...it seeks, surely, confrontation. A worthy foil. The thing is...as I am writing this, I am listening to this:
loud and clear, and its taking me back to a time of drug expermentation, and of my nearest and dearest chums far darker and more disturbed than my brethren you met in brighton...a few years back, when you knidly paid me a vist, during my period of wrestling sontrol of my soul from Hades.

YOu are most definitely NOT a shallow, horrid person. You are a GOOD man, in the theme of Richard frin Dead Mans Shoes...and your respect and protective instincts, towards women, are both rare and extremely valuable. I mean...for fucks sake...I value them, and i am MAN. Despite my diminuative physique, you are well aware of the manliness of my spirit. And also, of a hint of the masculinity of the fiends I am close to. Which reminds me...of an interview I was watching today, of Hunter, with one of the hells angels he rolled with for a year or two, when writing his book, Hells Angels. The first time I saw that, I had not read the book. And i was shocked at how tense and uneasy he seemed. But after reading the book, and watching it again, it makes me not only understand his stance more comfortably, but also mourn the loss of his presence from the world, traumatically. Because the story of Hunter's stomping, reminds me of you, dannyboy...as in...whilst truly immersed in the Angel's reaLM, Hunter took exception to witnessing an Angel beat his wife bitterly. And for his troubles, he was stomped. To add to this heroic stance, Hunter is so clearly, unwilling to broach the subject with the idiot chosen to contest his book on the chatshow episod ein question, that it simply makes my heor seem more heroic. So in some warped way...I am saying, dannyboy, when it comes to women, you are my hero...

[Grrrl]

oh wells, theres my very honest portrayal of how men are obsessed with sex, lol...
im not a horid shallow person... honest :p

It is soooo refreshing for someone to just be straight up and honest for a change, you have no idea... Certified Nutter, THANK YOU! You are not a horrid, shallow person, you are an open and honest individual and I admire you for it. The point you made in your post was pretty much bang on what I was trying to say but with the inability to find a starting point to explain myself. What I prehaps should have made more clear was that 95% of men do initiate contact with females in order to reap potential sexual benefits, but not all of those men do it and are concious of this at the time, though I do dare to say they are not the majority. From what I have seen, from my own life experiences, I tend to view men as very predatorial. I have witnessed men on various occasions, chatting up women, looking for an insecurity so they can use it to their advantage, to get what they want - laid. That kind of stuff doesn't really put the male gender in my minds spotlight for the right reasons to be honest. Though I am well aware, there are exceptions to the rule. Though I suppose if a woman is stupid enough to be continually sapped in by that routine she should shoulder some of the blame too.

And just for the record, I dont give two shits about money, I cant speak for every woman, but it would kill me to be reliant on a man/partner or anyone for that matter, its insane to put all your eggs in one basket like that anyway. If anything a man with a lot of money would make him less appealing to me because I would feel like hes always trying to buy me off or like I should owe him in someway. And another quick point, seen as though the last two ex partners I had completely rinsed my bank account into negative figures from a considerable amount I think the ball swings both ways on the 'in it for the money' front.

Thats all I got for now, I need smoke and sleep...

[Mate]

From what I have seen, from my own life experiences, I tend to view men as very predatorial. I have witnessed men on various occasions, chatting up women, looking for an insecurity so they can use it to their advantage, to get what they want - laid.

on the same note, i've seen chicks creating insecurities, inventing em, just to get a guy's attention.

But yea. it's primitive. The need to have an intimate relatioship with the other gender.
In that sense, it's almost true that 95% of people talks with the other gender to get an intimate relationship indirectly.

it is why i talk with women. That is true.
But it's not my only conscious idea.

it's not like. '' i need sex, i will go chill with women'' or '' i will talk with her just for her ass''
it's all indirect. it's primitive. it's how it's made so we're intented to reproduce.
There's a huge difference between the indirect unconscious need wich is totally normal, from both sides.
and the conscious urge for sex, wich with you use the woman as a masturbator.

same with the money need, both sides wants his/her partner to be able to generate some money.
But there's a huge difference between the chick that wants it unconsciously
or the chicks that wants everything paid and done for her.. princess bitches are bitches that will leech all your money.

Both the sex addict and the money bitch are horrible people that needs to be spoted
hum... to be con tinuied, i g2g... i will finish the post in 10min

[andriaSRH]

And just for the record, I dont give two shits about money, I cant speak for every woman, but it would kill me to be reliant on a man/partner or anyone for that matter, its insane to put all your eggs in one basket like that anyway. If anything a man with a lot of money would make him less appealing to me because I would feel like hes always trying to buy me off or like I should owe him in someway. And another quick point, seen as though the last two ex partners I had completely rinsed my bank account into negative figures from a considerable amount I think the ball swings both ways on the 'in it for the money' front.

I wrote this long thing but I clicked on another tab and now it's gone..UGHHH.

The jist of it was.....you should be grateful that a guy wants to buy you gifts just to see you smile. Not saying he should pay your bills, but yeah..you are thinking too much into it. Let's say you meet the guy of your dreams but he is rich...you're telling me you would most likely not be with him because of the money he makes?

I can see it being a little odd if a guy buys you a gift everytime you fight, but if he buys you things here and there, in my
eyes there isn't anything wrong with that. If a guy bought me something as a gift then said I had to pay him back at a later date I would seriously laugh in his face.

[Mate]

well. if it's all what he has to offer... i'd sense something that is wrong.

[andriaSRH]

He probably has a small penis or is a complete psycho...or both.

[AbbyRoad]

i dont know how i feel about this topic, im not sure what to say but here i go.

i dont like how one of my comments started the original "debate". all i was trying to say was you should be honest with your intentions and dont bitch about being led on if your not up front. now is that such a naive stance to hold?
im not as conceited to think that all guys who talk to me just want to have sex with me. sure, when i get my hair done, spend like 30 mins preping and put something sexy on most of the guys i talk to want to bone.
but looking like that is not something i care for. those guys that just want sex from conversation dont even bother me when i am me, not sexy me. does this bother me? no! cause even if its only 5% of guys that dont talk to women only for sex. i will hunt out those dudes and make them my bros

[Mate]

Ha - i'm sorry abby.
i should've remove all names from quotes. =-/

[AbbyRoad]

its all cool mate
no worries

[SpRi7e]

Just remember.. it's hard not to think about sex with a girl when she's wearing a shirt and her boobs are all perked up and sticking out.. If she's wearing jeans or something to make her ass show up more. The way people dress.. and the way that girls flirt a little (maybe just for attention.. a little insecurity?) but girls do LOTS of little subtle things that even they might not realize that attracts guys. It's just the way we're hardwired... there's nothing wrong with that. I would have to say there's definitely more to the 95% thing.. sure, a lot of people may think that.. but just having sex isn't the only thing men think about.. at least me. To be honest if a girl isn't up to par on her intelligence and she's dressed..not slutty, but wearing really sexy clothes.. then all I'll see her as is a girl that could be a good fuck. Now if she can have a fun conversation, and she has a good personality that can be matched up good with mine. Then sex is definitely not the only reason why I'm talking to her.

Remember, it's how you want to be portrayed.. the girl who everyone wants to bone (and girls you know there's a LOT of you out there) or the girl with a legit personality and a strong person.

I guess that second one though develops more on once a girls insecurities are more gone.

i haven't read like half of these responses, but i hope i didn't repeat what someone said