my best friend likes me.....help.

[roskilde]

alright. i need some advice. A week or so ago, my best friend, rachel, told me online that she liked me. We have been best friends since we were about 8. We are 16 now. We are both female. Anyway, this confession of hers left me confused, speechless, and stressed out. I don't want things to be weird for us as she is the best friend i've ever had, and my only best friend, but i can't even be around her anymore without feeling awkward.
Today was the first day of school and we have a class together, and i could barely even talk to her without feeling sort of gross. however, she acted as though nothing happened.

I have nothing against bisexuality / lesbians/gays ect., but the thought of my her having feelings for me scares me. gaah. what should i do? should i let it go and just not mention it?

thanks in advance to any and all help..

[Ikku]

Leave your names, phone numbers, and addresses, and I'll get back to you.

[Liles]

It's very unlikely you'll get a serious answer.

Just wait until Gorecore gets here, the jokes will pile on.

[roskilde]

lol. great.

[JokersAce]

Is she hot? Are you hot?

If so...

[Jay212]

I have a serious answer. Try taking an E each. In case you don't know what that is it's an ecstasy pill. Just talk to each other and I promise you'll have it all cleared up between you.

[Funk Doctor]

SERIOUS POST AHEAD.

I've been in a similar situation with one of my best friends. I knew he was gay long before, but one day he just up and told me he was in love with me. At first I was pretty speechless and had no clue on how to deal with it, so I ignored him for almost a week. But since he was a close friend, I had to talk things through with him eventually. I told him I was flattered, but that nothing would ever happen between us in that 'area'. He said he knew that, but that he had to tell me about it anyway. After a few weeks, he was completely 'over me', so to speak, and we're still the best of friends today.

So, my advice: Take some time to decide for yourself if anything could happen between you guys. If you decide not, then you must tell your friend exactly that. As her friend, you owe her that much. I can guarantee you that it's even more difficult for her than it is for you, since she is the one who had to deal with those feelings (both the gayness and the feelings for you) and then tell you about them.

[AbbyRoad]

i like it when mny best friends are sexy

[Vinyl]

just imagine i copy and pasted funk doctors post, minus the personal story of his. its exactly what is tell you to do, i think its the best thing.

[WeedGuru_Flow]

I think Funk kinda hit the nail on the head, give yourself time to get over the initial shock and then talk it out...


And if I were a girl (with my male mind) I wouldn't really mind it :p


But that's just my sick self...

[blazedsubaru]

This happened to my girlfriend and a friend of ours. She wasn't my girlfriend at the time, but you get the idea. It was a little more complicated because my girlfriend was very mad at the other girl for what she did to our guy friend (messed around with his heart, fucked him and left him again and again). She went along with it and played this girl to try and hurt her like she hurt our friend.

It worked. Don't do that to your friend, obviously.

I agree with the whole give it a while, then talk it out. If she is really you're friend, she'll drop it.

[tebulot]

i like it when mny best friends are sexy

Me too

[(weedguru)scarf]

i was going to tell you to grow up

but funk put it more eloquently...
your friend guts'd up hard to tell you...
surely you can be a good enough friend to sit
down and talk to her... rather than ignoring her...
better to get it out of the way and get on with being
friends than to let that drive u apart...

[crazycripple]

i wonder if she ever thinks about hooking up with you..
but yea you should talk to her about it, remember this,
if anything happens you two should take pictures and
post it on WG.. haha jk


but seriously you might like it

[Ikku]

but seriously you might like it

I hate the gluttonous assumptions and double standards behind that little smiley. If this was a guy posting about his friend liking him, no one would make a reply anything at all like this one.