Overreacting Friend? or am i in the wrong?.. or both?

[Footienut1892]

Basically my friend, lets call her K recently introduced me to one of her friends who happens to be a boy, i'll call him C. I went with K to watch his band practice earlier this week. It was pretty good. That's not really the issue though. The other night i was talking to C online and he asked me if i wanted to meet up with him in town for a sesh, so i said yes.

Anyway K phoned me in the morning asking if i wanted to go out somewhere, i already said i was going town, but then i said i was going town with C and she went all wierd on me. And now i don't think she's talking to me. I did say she could come along but she declined the offer.. It's like she thinks i'm stealing her friends, yeah i get along with most of her friends but i'm not gonna steel them because for one, they're not anyone's property. And if they want to hang out with me for one day then it's up to them and i'm not gonna only see them when i'm with K. She's getting all insecure=/

Anyway i honestly don't see why K is acting up over this, i did invite her along. It's not like i completely blew her off, i knew she was gonna phone me in the morning anyway so i asked her then. And said that she didn't wanna come along. In some ways i can understand where she's coming from. But with me it wouldn't bother me as much if she went and met up with one of my friends that i had introduced her too as much as it bothers her the other way round. If that made any sence at all.. As i've said, people don't own people.

Fair enough K may be a little worried about me stealing her friends or whatever, but if i had intentions of 'stealing' then i wouldn't have said that she can come and meet C with me. I am trying to see it from her point of view, and i can understand it to an extent. But he asked me to meet up with him, i didn't have anything else planned for then so i went and met him. And what's even more annoying is that she just left me a comment on myspace saying:

"stop talkin about me with C. you've got other things to talk about. so leave me out of your conversations! for fucks sake!"

I mean wtf? Me and C have hardly spoke about K since we have been talking, sure we have spoken about her but only coz thats how we know eachother. I'm not replying to that comment because i'm not arguing over myspace, it's pathetic. I want to talk to her about this, but she's being a complete bitch about it and making it into a bigger deal than it really is. I recon i should leave it a few days, then try and have a conversation with her without her being all 'me me me' because that's what she's being like atm, so it seems.
This just seems so pointless and immature.. i don't quite understand.


Gah.. people..

[CashMoney]

man dont let it bother you, this is just a girl thing. Just ignore her and when u next see her she'll be like ohh Hiii! and all you need to say is this "Oh so are you my friend again now?" And smile and she'll say yeah but inside she will feel like a dick for over reacting. Trust me

[President Beavis]

Oh god I really, really despise this kind of drama. You are definitely not in the wrong, and you're friend definitely is overreacting and then some. Looking at that myspace comment it sounds like someone heard her bitching about this and told her some complete bullshit about You and C to rile her up. Happens all the time with drama people are fucking assholes.

THis is why I hate highschool! People are so focused on the tiniest most insignificant things!! FUCKFUCKFUCK RAAAAAAAAWR!!!

You just never know, try to catch her in person and sort it out.

[WeedGuru_Flow]

meh, I reckon you're all the same age, how old were you again?

Probably just pubescent irritation or something...

[Certified-Nutter]

dont let other people bother you too much, its an annoying habit
if shes gna be a bitch about it, let her, but dont let her bring ur mood down about it
if i had to make a judgement on this situ, i would say you are in the right, and she is over-reacting, tho from what u said, i am guessing you are a girl, and C is a guy, mayb she fancied C and now you are gettin attention she is jelous?
just a opinion thou.
but as i said, its a futile effort to concern yourself in others emotions, cos it will never work, just keep yours as you want them and outside interferances are only outside afterall
if that made any sense to you, good luck on ur journeys

[Jay212]

man dont let it bother you, this is just a girl thing. Just ignore her and when u next see her she'll be like ohh Hiii! and all you need to say is this "Oh so are you my friend again now?" And smile and she'll say yeah but inside she will feel like a dick for over reacting. Trust me

that's not how girls are. They can hold a grudge till they're dead.

[Footienut1892]

meh, I reckon you're all the same age, how old were you again?

Probably just pubescent irritation or something...

Me and K are 16 and female, C is 17 and male.

I'm gonna try and speak to her, when i see her but i don't want to speak to her when she's being bitchy towards me or C. Leaving it a day or two might be a good idea. During that time i'm just gonna get on with my life untill she comes round to her sences..

Cheers everyone.

[Jay212]

It's obvious. The bitch liked this C guy. She only brought you to meat him cuz she wanted to see what you thought about him. Now she thinks that you two are talking and meeting up behind her back she thinks you two are gettin to kno eachother you know? Fuckin drama, it's a bitch.

[CashMoney]

man dont let it bother you, this is just a girl thing. Just ignore her and when u next see her she'll be like ohh Hiii! and all you need to say is this "Oh so are you my friend again now?" And smile and she'll say yeah but inside she will feel like a dick for over reacting. Trust me

that's not how girls are. They can hold a grudge till they're dead.

man, dont question the prophecy.

[Footienut1892]

It's obvious. The bitch liked this C guy. She only brought you to meat him cuz she wanted to see what you thought about him. Now she thinks that you two are talking and meeting up behind her back she thinks you two are gettin to kno eachother you know? Fuckin drama, it's a bitch.

Yeah i see where your coming from. But a conversation me and K had a few weeks back made me think something like this was going to happen at some point. Basically K was just sugarcoating the fact that she doesn't like her friends going off with her other friends. Something to that effect anyway. It wouldn't matter who it was she would have still gotten all pissy about the whole thing. So imo it's a bit of jelously, selfishness and insecurity.. never a good mix.

[Sm0kyMcPot]

sounds like more insecurity than anything.

[Weedguru_Falkon]

THis is why I hate highschool! People are so focused on the tiniest most insignificant things!! FUCKFUCKFUCK RAAAAAAAAWR!!!

Unfortunately it doesnt necessarily end after high school

[blackxs]

You and K should double team on C. He would certainly appreciate you both a lot more.

[BlazedAndConfused]

You and K should double team on C. He would certainly appreciate you both a lot more.

aye there u go!

[WeedGuru_Flow]

^^

There goes the thread