Ex-Girlfriend troubles.

[Douchestubbler]

My ex-girlfriend, who I still have feelings for, as well as she has feelings for me, found out I smoke pot. I stupidly was at a party and got a little bit too high before I went over to her house. I didn't have enough time to come down from the high, so it was hard for me to concentrate on what she was saying, and then she asked if I was high. I lied at first, which I know was the wrong thing to do, but then said yes. She flipped shit, and basically, the deal is it is either her or pot/cigarettes. What should I do? I really, really care for this girl, and the only reason we aren't together is because... well, I don't really think I should go into it on here. It is personal/private. But, I think we are getting back together in the future, once she is ready again.
I also really like pot, and the feeling it gives me. But, I don't like doing it alone, and I don't know how I would keep it from her again. If she found out, everything would be over.

[Liles]

Maybe talk to her about it, telling her as it's a part of you and it's something you enjoy doing like she might enjoy shopping or drinking.

If that's not the problem and if it's the illegal thing go over the things about it being government and how 50 years ago you'd be killed for being homosexual

If it's the health thing, tell her alcohol is more dangerous, if she doesn't accept that tell her you'll try and cut back, using a vap or cooking with it.

[Jay212]

Way to be whipped to shit.

You go out with a person for who they are, not who you want them to be. Tell her to go find a guy who's completely clean if that's what she really wants and don't be turning into a little bitch cuz of some girl. You're still young an no matter how much you believe it, you're not going to be with her forever and there's nothing "special" about her.

By the way, I'm making a point that you can't ask us questions about YOU AND THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE because we don't know how your girlfriend is and how she'd react to shit. I might tell my ex to blow me for making me choose, and she will. But then if you told your girl to blow you, maybe she'd get her older brother to stomp the shit out of you. Who knows? Not us.

[dylann]

id just try to expain it to her as people have said before. and if that doesnt work and she says the same thing. just toke with ya good tokin buddies still and tell her youve stoped.

well thats what id do

[blackxs]

omg if she wont let you smoke then dump her.

its best to have a chick that smokes with you, thats what im looking for now.

but having a chick that doesnt care if you smoke in front of her can be just as good.

[CashMoney]

man, if there one thing I know it's this and it might sound abit harsh but im talking from experience. Never let a bitch tell you what and what not to do otherwise she will have control over you and when u one day challenge her about it she will jump on her high horse and argue her tits off at you because she will think she can win and she probably will do. What you need to do it just ignore her, give her the cold shoulder and wait until she comes round. If she gives a fuck about u and comes bk to you then your on a winner but if not. Then fuck her off and try and get with her friends man cuz she wasn't worth it in the first place.