I've got no idea wtf to do.

PuffPuffGive · Post by **PuffPuffGive** » Wed Jul 25, 2007 5:04 am

Okay long story short a really close female friend of mine told me her mom molested her when she was 7. She cries occasionally for like no reason (at least thats what I thought at the time) and we work at the same place and sometimes Ill go into the office and she'll be crying by herself. Its been like that since as long as I can remember but she just told me tonight and I dont even know what the hell I should do. I just want to fucking dome check her piece of shit mom.

Cheers

FIRE!!! · Post by **FIRE!!!** » Wed Jul 25, 2007 5:08 am

Some people are just disgusting..

just be there for her man. Be strong, be her shoulder. I imagine that's what someone in that sort of situation would really need. She's clearly traumatized, it's horrible what some people will do for their own selfish benefit, even sick and twisted things like this. All you can do is be support and offer any advice you can, or always be ready to listen to her. Make sure she know's that she is loved and cared about.

Post by **(weedguru)scarf** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 1:02 am

yeah just try and help her as much as possible... thats a real hard situation to be in
good lucK mate

Post by **WeedGuru_Flow** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 8:21 am

Best to just support her in a relatively passive way, be with her a lot listen to her when she feels like talking about it, comfort her when she cries...

I have some friends, both female and male that had the same thing happen to them, some of them occasionally seem to fall apart while others are just as normal as you and I (well they're all normal, but mentally, you get it) so my advice is to just 'be present'.

addictedtodam · Post by **addictedtodam** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 1:40 pm

Im with you lot on this one, unless she wants to take legal action theres not much anyone can do. All you can do is just be there and when shes ready to talk or when she wants to talk to you about it just listen and comfort her.

How the fuck can anyone do that kinda shit especially to their own child. That woman and anyone else like that needs fucking shooting, it makes me sick.

Good luck with this one mate, and i hope youre friend can put it behind her and move on even though its probably the toughest thing she will have to deal with but you all know what i mean

PuffPuffGive · Post by **PuffPuffGive** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 10:49 pm

Ah fuck.

Last night was hell, I was with her and 2 of her friends last night who I only semi-know and we had a bottle of Rum. Me and her are both lifeguards at an outdoor pool and and decided rather stupidly and somewhat drunkenly to go for a swim, so we just hopped the fence and got into the pool. We were there for about 30 minutes before shit went to hell. Man do I hate the Police. We wernt even being loud but I guess there was a car in the parking lot (Not even ours we fucking walked there.) and since the pools closed they decided to investigate. So long story short, her and her 2 friends had to get picked up by their parents at about 2:30 in the morning whereas I spent the night in a cell for possesion of alcohol. (Already being on probation and all.) I got out earlier today to discover that I'm fired, the girl may have a chance at just being suspended since she wasnt actually arrested. But I cant get in contact with her at all her parents took away her phone and she hasnt been online. Plus her parents recognized me before they took her away so I doubt theres much chance of seeing her any time soon. I've got court the 15th, but I swear to god if that cunt touches her in the slightest of ways I may catch another charge.

I'm really going to try ending this post on a positive note, so...as the police lifted me from the parking lot, handcuffed me, and drug me away, I turned my head and asked her out, after a moment's hesitation she said yes, to her parents great dismay. I can still remember her dumb bitch of a mother yelling to stop talking to me and turn around and to not even think of me.

Cheers,

Funk Doctor · Post by **Funk Doctor** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 10:53 pm

Well, if it's any consolation, that was pretty much the coolest way to ask a girl out.

bobdole · Post by **bobdole** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 11:12 pm

You get some pretty major badass points for the way you asked her out.

PuffPuffGive · Post by **PuffPuffGive** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 11:32 pm

Yeah but its not going to really matter if I can't ever see her...

Cheers

darkslide180 · Post by **darkslide180** » Fri Jul 27, 2007 1:47 am

im sure you'll be able to talk to her at least soon enough that bitch cant keep her away forever and you get mad street cred in my book for the asking her out like that anyways good luck in court hope it all goes well

JokersAce · Post by **JokersAce** » Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:35 am

ya bro good luck with your shit.

PuffPuffGive · Post by **PuffPuffGive** » Fri Jul 27, 2007 3:35 pm

Thanks guys, anyways my PO is going to try and just extend my probation longer, but she says I may be facing drug court or house arrest as well. Oh and I was able to "talk" to her for a little while today because we both went to our old job to pick up our last pay check at the same time. Wasn't long her mom was waiting outside in the car but it was something.

Cheers

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