My outlook...

[blazedsubaru]

I'm just going to warn you...I'm not high as I write this.

I think that life is what you make it. If you have everything handed to you and don't put in any work, your life will end up shitty. If you depend on others every step of the way, you're going to fail again and again as soon as life requires you to be alone. If you beleive in team work, you can always find a team and that is different than relying on others.

Life is not all about sex. Some people need to learn this. Sex is great and can bring two people closer than ever, but more often than not it pushes two souls farther apart. If you want to be in love, making it can wait. If you want to fuck, love can wait.

Nobody can make you happy. Things can't make you happy.
They can only help. You have to make yourself happy. Find the activity, the people, the sport, the drug, and participate. Put some effort into your happiness and you will thank yourself later.

Don't steal. When you steal, sure you gain something for you. But you are taking from others. When you think "it's a big store, they won't really even know" you are right. I worked retail. I know how loose those stores sometimes are and they won't really know how much is on the shelf and if they lose 2-3 items a day it's no big deal. Do not steal from mom and pop stores, whatever you do don't steal from homes, cars, anything like that.

Be a beautiful person, and people will see your beauty. Be an ugly person with a pretty face or a good body and the other ugly people will find you. You wonder why your life is shit??

Be good to your friends. Be there when they need you, they will be there for you. Go out of your way!

People are sad for a lot of their life, that's normal. It's okay to get sad. Don't complain and bitch to me every single time something gets you down. I understand if my girlfriend does this, but that's just because she needs support, but everyone? Bitch, please. Go smoke a bowl.


And on that note, I'm out.
I feel a weight has lifted from just letting my thoughts run onto this forum.

[Mate]

I think that life is what you make it. If you have everything handed to you and don't put in any work, your life will end up shitty. If you depend on others every step of the way, you're going to fail again and again as soon as life requires you to be alone. If you beleive in team work, you can always find a team and that is different than relying on others.

i believe in teamwork, i can live alone, but i think it's really really hard. lot of things to pay, no social support, no communication, you're alone, it sucks, and any human that is alway alone will fail in life, or get super depressed because we are humans.

i remember, when my gf left the appartment, everything i was doing with her, every little habbit i had, eating with her, sleeping with her, watching tv with her, coming back from work and seeing her at home, talking with her everyday, all those little things i was doing with her, we gone from day to an other, and i was alone. wich really hurted me. I tought it was the end of world... i cried.... but i'm ok now
and even there, i feel like i need someone to live with.

On another hand, if we get too dependant of others, we develop a lazy mentality, wich isnt better.

Life is not all about sex. Some people need to learn this. Sex is great and can bring two people closer than ever, but more often than not it pushes two souls farther apart. If you want to be in love, making it can wait. If you want to fuck, love can wait.

i remember, i had a one night stand, once, in my life, it was with one of my friend, we didnt loved each other, but we both needed to have sex.
and when you have sex for your own pleasure, it's not the same thing as if you have sex cause you love the person
i don't need that kind of sex in my life

on other foot(let's be original)

When i was with my gf(ya refering to her again). and we had sex togheter,
it was not the same thing, at all, there's a different attraction, a different approach, the way we were looking each other, how soft it was.
That kind of sex.
i need it in my life.
it lifts my mood from sad to happy, from angry to smily.

Nobody can make you happy. Things can't make you happy.
They can only help. You have to make yourself happy. Find the activity, the people, the sport, the drug, and participate. Put some effort into your happiness and you will thank yourself later.

nobody can make you happy ? i totally disagree with this.
if there's a girl you love, or a friend you like, and that you need help, cause you can't stand the crapness of your life, someone else's help is NEEDED, you can't do everything by yourself, or you don't have to.
if you need someone's help in anything in life, ask for it.
being supported is something really important for me.
and if someone can bring a smile in my face in the worst times, i'll go see that person, cause it makes me happy.

you said yourself

Be good to your friends. Be there when they need you, they will be there for you. Go out of your way!

without friends, you won't live happy. you need good people that you like around you in order to be happy.

on another hand, if you alway keep a negative shitty ass emo teen fuck attitude, you won't go anywhere in life.

Don't steal. When you steal, sure you gain something for you. But you are taking from others. When you think "it's a big store, they won't really even know" you are right. I worked retail. I know how loose those stores sometimes are and they won't really know how much is on the shelf and if they lose 2-3 items a day it's no big deal. Do not steal from mom and pop stores, whatever you do don't steal from homes, cars, anything like that.

stealing sucks, if you can't afford stuff, get a job, and, stop being an asshole.

Be a beautiful person, and people will see your beauty. Be an ugly person with a pretty face or a good body and the other ugly people will find you. You wonder why your life is shit??

the most important thing, in life, is your attitude, and your personality.
if it's shitty, you won't go anywhere
However, life isnt that hard for super cute girl and muscle boys with hollywood look.
even if they are shitty to everyone, they will still be apreciated by some other people, cause they LOOK good.
But this is today's society works, lol.

People are sad for a lot of their life, that's normal. It's okay to get sad. Don't complain and bitch to me every single time something gets you down. I understand if my girlfriend does this, but that's just because she needs support, but everyone? Bitch, please. Go smoke a bowl.

everyone needs support in life
everyone wants to success in life diserve help.
everyone disverve to be liked for who they are

if someone doesnt have that, he has the right to be sad.

[blazedsubaru]

Right, good points.

I guess I messed up on a few little things.
I think people should be able to talk through their probems and what makes them sad. I am more referring to the random friends that I am not even that close to that come to me every day wanting me to pick them up. If you are my friend, you know I will do anything I can just to make you happy when you are sad.

I am a bit of a protector in life. I want to be sure everyone is okay. It's part of who I am and how I was raised. Whenever Miranda leaves my house (she lives about a half hour away) I always tell her to be careful and drive safely and then I ask her to call/text me when she gets home so I know she's safe. I am always ready for that call "Brent, I crashed" or something like that. I worry so much. She has called me at 2am "I need somewhere to sleep tonight", I'm out the door in less than a minute from being asleep.

[Mate]

i am the kind of person that alway tries to put his touch of humor in everything, even the sadest thing that could happen.
i'm alway trying to get a smile from everyone i meet in my day.
and like you, i'm really a protector, i'm trying to make sure that everyone is ok around me, that everyone is happy.

I'm alway here for any friends that needs my help.
I'm really good to comunicate with people, maybe on these board, sometime, i dont make sense, but i'm french, and doing my best with the english language, lol.

and as people that hates me ? Bah, fuck em ? I don't even... look at em, total ignorance.

[blazedsubaru]

Your English is quite good, no worries.

[AbbyRoad]

im totally in love with you matt lol sorry this irelevant. and im jking

[(weedguru)scarf]

where did all of this come from blazed/brent?

perhaps the last couple of months with the bold and the beautiful crew

but essentially you're right... esp the part about being a beautiful person...
so many people work on their exterior so much that they forget the interior...
its all well and good to drive a beautiful 65 Mustang... but how far can you go with no engine and a milk crate to sit on..

i find that so many people complain for no real reason... maybe we all have a dire craving for sympathy...
so i try not to complain much at all... every day i get up, have my coffee, and try to make people smile
whether it be my work friends, my mum, my uni mates... whoever... as long as they dont see me and
get a downer !!!

i think that if everyone began to just cut down to complaints a day... keep them inside... just the little ones
and instead replace them with a joke or a funny story, we would all smile a lot more!

on the sex issue... i agree with u... sex is wonderful... and not a lot is better than wonderful romantic/hot/crazy
sex with your loved one.... but often it just messes with people... drives insecurities.... forces people apart
if you love someone... take your time... it shouldnt matter what the sex is like... yes its an important part
of anyones healthy relationship... but it shouldnt be the only thing... if it is... you might as well give up now!

anyways enough playing doctor phil... lets just all sit on a beach somewhere smoke some baseballs
and laugh with each other

good topic

peace

[Mate]

a smart man once said.

'don't worry, be happy'

think positive. if your brain get used to alway have a negative view on everything, you'll be the most negative and sucky person on earth.

oh

and scarf, you smoke baseball ????

[Ikku]

A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.

Duties are not performed for duty's sake, but because their neglect would make the man uncomfortable. A man performs but one duty - the duty of contenting his spirit, the duty of making himself agreeable to himself.

Each man must for himself alone decide what is right and what is wrong, which course is patriotic and which isn't. You cannot shirk this and be a man. To decide against your conviction is to be an unqualified and excusable traitor, both to yourself and to your country, let me label you as they may.

A few quotes from Mark Twain that basically sum up my philosophy. The key to being happy in life is being satisfied with yourself.

[(weedguru)scarf]

and scarf, you smoke baseball ????

hahaha to clarify... a local nickname for very fat joints.... they look like baseball bats

[roskilde]

When i was with my gf(ya refering to her again). and we had sex togheter,
it was not the same thing, at all, there's a different attraction, a different approach, the way we were looking each other, how soft it was.
That kind of sex.
i need it in my life.
it lifts my mood from sad to happy, from angry to smily.

YES! you get the physical pleasure and the emotional pleasure all in one, best of both worlds. and looking into your partners eyes during sex is the most amazing feeling in the world. you can't really do that to someone you don't love.