Help, romance help here

Bear · Post by **Bear** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 9:58 am

Me and my girl split up people, not good seeing as shes neerly due.

She said all the romance and stuff has been sucked out of our relationship and shes just really unhappy. She said coke has taken everybit of romance out of our relationship. Shes still living with me... but were just not talking to eachother.

I came in last night and cooked our dinner, we had noodles and shit and a quick stirfry. But yesterday i was urging for my old romance ways but i dont know... i just didnt have alot of intrest in sexual desires... i dont know why exactly.

I tell her i love her everyday, from waking up to going to sleep.

Im living in the living room atm, because she said she didnt feel comfortable with me in the same room atm. She didnt say it was over (thankfully) but she said i want a break till im ok again.

I know some of the guys here probably laughing at me for not satisfying my woman but i just havent had the time, had to go to work coz now its my holidays (2 weeks off) im working everyday alot more hours to earn extra cash. When i get home at like 11 im just not in the mood people.

Is it the coke i wonder, is it the drugs full stop? If so im going to quit now because i can see its getting unhealthy in my relationship. She didnt even say she loved me yesterday night, which is VERY bad.

what can i do, fellas and girls, suggestions on spicing things up please!

Post by **WeedGuru_Flow** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 10:35 am

Give up your nasty dirty cokehabbit and start smoking weed again?

Doenst coke cause sexuality to go down?

Certified-Nutter · Post by **Certified-Nutter** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 10:43 am

yea man, with all this worktime your putting in, and the coke on top of that
thats probably why mate, in my advice, you need to quit (or cutback)
and try n get some time with ur lady, it dnt havta b sexual or anything just spend some time with her without any drugs pumpin through your vains

Dakine · Post by **Dakine** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 12:30 pm

Cocaine [Eyes] wrote: I know some of the guys here probably laughing at me for not satisfying my woman but i just havent had the time, had to go to work coz now its my holidays (2 weeks off) im working everyday alot more hours to earn extra cash. When i get home at like 11 im just not in the mood people.

Thats no excuse. seriously.

Flow wrote:Give up your nasty dirty cokehabbit and start smoking weed again?

Doenst coke cause sexuality to go down?

qft. or just quit drugs completley for a bit.

Ikku · Post by **Ikku** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 12:34 pm

Yeah, I think it's time you put up the snow for a while.

Post by **(weedguru)scarf** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 1:07 pm

she could be pissed your spending so much money on coke instead of her and your unborn child????
i dunno...
seems like a messy situation

weedguru+chrisisonfire · Tue Apr 10, 2007 2:22 pm

Snowbliiiind.

Dakine wrote:
Cocaine [Eyes] wrote: I know some of the guys here probably laughing at me for not satisfying my woman but i just havent had the time, had to go to work coz now its my holidays (2 weeks off) im working everyday alot more hours to earn extra cash. When i get home at like 11 im just not in the mood people.
Thats no excuse. seriously.

Flow wrote:Give up your nasty dirty cokehabbit and start smoking weed again?

Doenst coke cause sexuality to go down?
qft. or just quit drugs completley for a bit.

SpRi7e · Post by **SpRi7e** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 2:27 pm

yea, if you you've been telling the truth about you doin coke all the time then that must be a lot of money you have been spending and she's probably getting mad about that cuz your not as dedicated as you should be to your child. just quit doing drugs all together so you can save money for your baby and not spend so much on yourself. Just think of something "romantic" to do with her as a surprise and also say you've fully quit coke (or at least cut back).

MatteN · Post by **MatteN** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 6:51 pm

bear...

you, me and everyone else in the world knows exactly what you need to do, and only you can do it.

get it done

FIRE!!! · Post by **FIRE!!!** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 9:05 pm

All I can say is, uh,

if you want to keep this girl, it's pretty obvious what you have to do, quit coke,

and I know all that "easier said than done" bullshit, yeah I went through it, it's not fucking easy but it's more than worth it in the long run to get yourself off that shit while you still have the chance.

Jay212 · Post by **Jay212** » Tue Apr 10, 2007 9:14 pm

yuh yuh guy dont even fuck with that shit anymore. you're the best depiction of a an addictive personality that I've ever met. You (say you) cry when you have no weed for a few days, which is fukin sad as hell, so why the fuck would you even try an addicting drug in the first place? if you're not the most bullshit person ive ever met in my life, you must be purposely trying to throw your life away.

p.s if i made no sense on some of the shit i said, im drained and pretty retarded at this point so forgive me. Also, none of it was said to mean offense, just to help you see.

captainMorton · Post by **captainMorton** » Wed Apr 11, 2007 12:33 am

coke=bad
weed=okay
baby=good
getting sex on a regular basis=awsome

buttermilk · Post by **buttermilk** » Wed Apr 11, 2007 1:28 am

captainMorton wrote:coke=bad
weed=okay
baby=good
getting sex on a regular basis=awsome

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Dr. Greenthumb · Post by **Dr. Greenthumb** » Wed Apr 11, 2007 1:37 am

My guess is that since the only thing I ever see you write about is cocaine that yes you have a cocaine habit. Try and kick it or get yourself some help.

Good Luck.

President Beavis · Post by **President Beavis** » Thu Apr 12, 2007 2:57 am

Man, you have to kick the coke. You've gotten so into it so quickly I don't doubt it'll fuck you over one of these days. Pretty sure that most everyone would agree.

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