i suck at social things....

[goingmerry202]

yeah i'm 16 years old in 10th grade and have never realy even touched a girl in the past 4 or so years, am akward as fuck in social situations, and have ben using drugs as a social crutch for a couple years now. i'm not gonna lie i'm one good looking mother fucker on coke. anyway i just switched to a public school 2 weeks ago, 600 plus kids in each class. going to school dance tonight, have never seen people dance, have never danced, dont know anything about it. so should i just go there with a possotive attitude and try to do what isee other people doing , or should i do like i always do and get use drugs as a crutch adn just get real crunk before i go.

[MatteN]

want to know a few things about girls that i've learned?

well i'm a decent looking guy, but i can attract girls no matter how good looking they are and here's how.

1. girls love confidence. show her that you are worth something (but don't be a cocky Ahole either). walk with some posture, talk with some pride, don't act scared or awkward. it may be hard at first but once you get your confidence up, it's so much easier to talk to anyone.

2. if you get a girl's number or you become friends with a girl you like...don't bother her every free moment you get, they need space just like us bro.

3. no girl is "out of your league". there are no such things as "leagues". no girl is too good for you man and don't limit yourself, take a chance on the real cute girl

4. respect yourself and her...it's sad to say this...but the way you dress really affects what kind of girl you will get, so think about how you are dressing and talking and behaving and think about what kind of girl would be attracted to you. i'm not saying change who u are...but usually being notorious for drugs, fights, and other shit won't get a decent girl.

5. i'm saying this to you as a guy lookin out for you...u should stop the hard drugs...no girl worth you dating will want you doing hard drugs and it will ruin any relationship lol.

6. be funny and be you. girls love funny guys, open guys, guys with a personality.


well that's just what i've learned from experience as an 18 year old male.
If any girls would like to critique my post please do, it's for his help.

i hope this helps man, good luck

[cutthecashflow]

Be yourself, don't try and put on an act for other people.

Don't worry about small things.

Attitudes follow behaviors. If you want to change your attitude towards something start with changing your behavior. Talk to people, only way to make friends is to talk with them.

Girls, well again don't act stupid or do something you wouldn't do normally. Just take it one step at a time.

If this helps look at the group as a "whole" then pick out each individual part, this technique has really been helping me lately. Start general and work towards specific. Try to perceive the situation as others are perceiving it.

Don't worry how others might be perceiving you, because then you will shape your behavior to model what other people think you really are. (Looking glass Self).

Anyways man, stay cool, don't worry, and just go out and have some fun.

[(weedguru)scarf]

quote all of the above


so how did it go?

i get nervous as hell in new social situations... but once they become familiar to me i dont have a problem.

[AbbyRoad]

how can you only be good looking while on coke?

[birdie]

want to know a few things about girls that i've learned?

well i'm a decent looking guy, but i can attract girls no matter how good looking they are and here's how.

1. girls love confidence. show her that you are worth something (but don't be a cocky Ahole either). walk with some posture, talk with some pride, don't act scared or awkward. it may be hard at first but once you get your confidence up, it's so much easier to talk to anyone.

2. if you get a girl's number or you become friends with a girl you like...don't bother her every free moment you get, they need space just like us bro.

3. no girl is "out of your league". there are no such things as "leagues". no girl is too good for you man and don't limit yourself, take a chance on the real cute girl

4. respect yourself and her...it's sad to say this...but the way you dress really affects what kind of girl you will get, so think about how you are dressing and talking and behaving and think about what kind of girl would be attracted to you. i'm not saying change who u are...but usually being notorious for drugs, fights, and other shit won't get a decent girl.

5. i'm saying this to you as a guy lookin out for you...u should stop the hard drugs...no girl worth you dating will want you doing hard drugs and it will ruin any relationship lol.

6. be funny and be you. girls love funny guys, open guys, guys with a personality.


well that's just what i've learned from experience as an 18 year old male.
If any girls would like to critique my post please do, it's for his help.

i hope this helps man, good luck

This is very good advice, especially the quitting the hard drugs part. Girls will like you for who you are, but nobody wants to be with a drug addict.

[weedguru tom]

lol the dreded question, do you do drugs ?, lol i always say i used to when i was younger blagged.

[FIRE!!!]

how can you only be good looking while on coke?

Mind over matter

[Dakine]

I hate girls finding me attractive, because thye end up getting really into me, and then i have a relationship with somebody else, and they get really upset. Not that i'm bragging or anything.

[219]

Just be yourself and don't give a shit what people think. The only person you're ever going to be is you and if a girl doesn't like you for yourself then so what, there's plenty of others. Just talk to them, don't be really serious right away. Crack some jokes, laugh, and have a good time.

And I don't know about you, but when I'm high I absolutely CANNOT talk to girls. Basically everyone's said the same thing, it works, trust me.

[Dakine]

Exactly, its not your problem if she doesnt like you for who you are, she'smissing out on a good time. Theres plenty more fish in't ocean.