i get what your saying, but as a friend, aren't you kinda morally obligated to tell someone the truth? i mean, if it was me i wouldnt mind hearing it from a good friend opposed to hearing it from some fuckwad i dont even know.astramasta wrote:my advice is stay out of it, let them sot it out themselves, when it comes to relationships, its best to just let the couple involved sort it out, if u get involved, it could cause trouble. if u wanna stay friends with both, then u need to keep ur mouth shut, cause if u tell, then one of them is gonna fall out with u.
i know its difficult not to say anything, but its what u gotta do to keep both ur friends. hope that helps (im speaking from experience by the way, but everyone is different i suppose.)
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:caro:weedguru caro wrote:I don't think you should tell her. I think what you should do is confront him, and reason with him. Maybe you can get him to stop cheating
This is what you should do. If he doesn't stop Cheating and shit after that or maybe doesn't tell the truth then Tell her. Go to him first! imo..
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I hope everything is sorted out by now, but heres my two cents...or whatever that is in Australian currency.
Does your friend know you saw him?
If not, tell him you saw him cheating, and that he can do as he likes(telling his girl, not that he can cheat) and then back out. I was in a similair situation with my best friend. I did the above mentioned, and he ended up telling his gf of 2 and a half years. They didn't break up, and in a way they became closer. Leave it up to him to tell his girl; no one likes a tattler.
Does your friend know you saw him?
If not, tell him you saw him cheating, and that he can do as he likes(telling his girl, not that he can cheat) and then back out. I was in a similair situation with my best friend. I did the above mentioned, and he ended up telling his gf of 2 and a half years. They didn't break up, and in a way they became closer. Leave it up to him to tell his girl; no one likes a tattler.
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called him last night from work and told him what i saw. i have pretty much given him a deadline to ditch the new bitch or to come clean with it all. he was actually pretty cool about it which i thought was kinda odd. why would you be so complacent about potentially losing a long term relationship like that 
maybe the relationship is doomed to fail. anyway the ball is in his court now and i got a good nights sleep
maybe the relationship is doomed to fail. anyway the ball is in his court now and i got a good nights sleep
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