Weed VS. Love

[xhightimes420]

I told my girl that i smoke weed but, i waited a month into our relationship to tell her. She asked me if i would choose weed over her and i didn't want to hurt her so i just said to her, i don't want to answere that. I don't know what to do. I've been with weed for 3 years now and she worried that i have a stronger relationship with my bud, then with her. Please, reply to this with your advice.

[callmeandy]

well, dude, i have been with weed for about 3 years now too, and, being a fatass im not to good with the ladies, and in fact, not good with anyone, not many friends. weed has become my friend as sadly as it sounds, and people dont stay away because of it, they wont be close to me unless they're kickin my ass, nobody would guess it. therefore, i would give up weed for a girl, for a love, i am an extremely social person, but with no outlet i have to just kinda smoke it away, and if i didnt feel like i had to do it, i would love it. not to say that i still wouldnt turn down an occasional smoke, but within the past few months, i have bumped up to 2 grams a day, which may not sound like much but for a 15 year old with school and such.....

so, i'll try to put myself in your place, but i dont really know for sure, well, just examine the pros and cons, what would life be like with bud but without this girl, or life with this girl but without bud. i personally would choose love, but i dont know man, girls will come and girls will go, if you dont think it will last than maybe you should go with it. sorry if im rabling, a little baked just trying to help.

[Sammy]

Man why would you ever choose a drug over love? I'd quit in a second If things dont work out with her, you can always come back to pot, if you choose pot and ditch her, youre gonna live your whole life wondering what could have been

[Funk Doctor]

Yeah man, don't be a dumbass, just quit smoking.

[layabout guy]

Man why would you ever choose a drug over love? I'd quit in a second If things dont work out with her, you can always come back to pot, if you choose pot and ditch her, youre gonna live your whole life wondering what could have been

Took the words right outta my mouth, the only thing i can guess at is you think your in love coz love over drug(s) any day

[cutthecashflow]

Find a girl that loves drugs if you have to I guess. But myself would just quit smoking.

[Mind Terrorist]

i lost my ex through weed. she wanted me to quit, i didnt, kept smoking and went all moody and evil. i'm with a new girl now and she wants me to quit or cut down at the very least, so im givin it a shot. you only live once and if this dont work out all well then i guess i can always buy half a bar and get back to square one.

[moonpuppy]

My girlfriend doesn't mind me doing weed and is interested in trying it with me sometime soon, if you tell her all the facts and why you choose to do it if she really likes you she'll be able to accept it.

[Scratch]

There's no doubt...if it's real love, choose love.

[tweedle]

Yeah man, don't be a dumbass, just quit smoking.

Or just say you've quit and don't go round her stoned but I would choose love

[Juicy J]

You've gotta be a damn fool to pass up on pussy (love) lol.. for bud

I say, if weed is that important to you, just dont do it around her and dont let her konw you do it, worst that can happen is you lose the girl, which is what you would do anywayz if you choose bud in the first place so what the hell its your choice

i would pass up bud for a woman any day.. as far as she knows

[pirate]

depends dude
how can you be in love with someone you've been with only a month?

you could do:
a) if you're just looking to get laid, then smoke on the side and bullshit to her...

b) if you're serious about her and you're hearing wedding bells chime...you need to stop smoking..(man id give up smoking if i heard wedding bells chime!!!)

[Caro]

omg I cannot picture myself giving up weed for any guy. I don't care how hot he is, if I'm gonna date him he better be down with that. How could I fall in love with someone who didn't know I was a stoner anyway? I've got a damn pot leaf tattooed on my hip! lol. No, the only person I would ever give up smokin for is my child, and I guess that really is love. But I would not choose sex or a boyfriend over bud. Bud has never ever yelled at me, cheated on me, broken my heart or bones, tried to fuck me in the ass or forgotten to call. If they were worth it, they'd understand that I enjoy smoking out and not ever pressure me to stop "for them". Please. The only person you should ever stop for is yourself or an innocent child.

[Scratch]

Well, if we're talking about real love then fuck the weed, it's not even that good, but if we're talking about sex and a usual short-term relationship, then it's another thing...if you like weed keep smoking it.

[clashcityrocker]

I told my girl that i smoke weed but, i waited a month into our relationship to tell her. She asked me if i would choose weed over her and i didn't want to hurt her so i just said to her, i don't want to answere that. I don't know what to do. I've been with weed for 3 years now and she worried that i have a stronger relationship with my bud, then with her. Please, reply to this with your advice.

If I ever met a girl that wanted me to quit smoking weed, and she was worth it, it would be really easy to quit. Good thing that wont ever happen

Tell her that you would DEFINETLY choose her over weed, but that doesnt necessarily mean you WANT to quit smoking. If she still wants you to quit then either you make a tough decision and stay with her, or decide shes not an understanding person and smoke a bowl. if she really does like you then she wont make you change.