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EVERYONE...Smoke one for DAN!!

Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2004 2:30 pm
by tommyd


Hey stoners!!!
I don't know if you all heard about Dan dying. For those of you who haven't; he died while trying to jump off a cliff into the water. He hit his head on some rocks on the way down and was knocked unconsious.

R.I.P Dan!! We will forever miss you!! :(
Try to contact Dan's sister for more info.. And be supportive!!

I say that all of us should get together in our own homes and Smoke one for Dan. Let's say, 7p.m. tonight??

Everyone light up tonight at 7 pm and smoke one for Dan.

That was his quote in the posts that he made. "smoke one for Dan"

One of us has fallen and we all need to take a little time out to think about our own lives and just how short they might be.

GOD bless Dan's family.

We will miss you Dan!!

Tommyd

Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2004 5:28 pm
by riff
Thats a nice idea bro. I think it should happen in a week or so, to make sure everyone knows about it. I can't do it tonight anyway, i'm out of smoke. I'm definetley up for that tohugh. R.I.P Dan, our thoughts are with you.

Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2004 7:37 pm
by Tr0n
dude I'd love to, but i just ran out of bud yesterday. I'm with revolver on this, maybe next week

Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2004 7:42 pm
by 13laze
well if u guys wanna do it than ask Caro to set up a date or somthing

Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2004 9:42 pm
by weedguru tom
with all due respect,

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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 6:28 pm
by Caro
That thread has kind of died... I know I should unsticky it since no one replies anymore, but I just can't bear to, yet. If it can stay there people can still know about it, like tommyD. Thank you, Tom, for your personal messages and your effort to rally the crew to have a smoke session for Dan. I didn't expect to be... well, that doesn't matter, a million things remind me of him and I don't expect to feel the way I do, a pain that I didn't create for myself, a pain you can't walk away from... you know? Last weekend there was a football game at his highschool that was dedicated to him... but no one told us, so we missed it. :cry: Synergism is the power of collective thought, and pretty special to me... if everyone thinks of him at the same time I'm just sure he can feel it where he is now... and I want so bad for him to know that he is not forgotten, maybe for most people when he died their lives went back to normal, even people in my extended family and friends, but not for those who loved him. It's obvious to me he continues on, he's there for me all the time now, but I can never be with him physically again. He was a 17 year old kid, he loved to smoke, eat pizza, go snowboarding, his classic car and hot babes just like so many other kids who are safe in bed tonight. He's not coming home coz he departed while having good clean (if dangerous) fun and we put him in the ground. His laughter and his special voice, so much like my own are gone. I'll never forget him, there isn't a day that goes by he isn't with me... in fact since he died we've gotten closer because in death you belong to those who love you, so live your lives well... he had no dirty secrets in his room, you know he was just a good kid. And TommyD, I don't think you read beyond the first post, the first information we got on his death was that he hit rocks, but he didnt... he just hit the water at an angle and was knocked out, inhaling when he plunged deep under. I'm crying pretty hard now, for this has triggered a session of grief, but I welcome it because it is important not to stuff my pain. Weedguru has been a good outlet that I haven't been using due to lack of response, so thank you for responding.

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 7:38 pm
by Tripped
alright, I just smoked the last of my weed for dan. :spliff: :)

R.I.P Dan, and god bless.

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 11:18 pm
by Shredd
tommyd is a good guy 8)

Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2004 11:20 am
by riff
Weedguru Caro wrote:That thread has kind of died... I know I should unsticky it since no one replies anymore, but I just can't bear to, yet. If it can stay there people can still know about it, like tommyD
I think it would be a cool idea to keep that thread sticky in memory of Dan. Its entirely up to Caro.

Have some seeds tommyd for your kindess. Grow whatever you wish :shock:

Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2004 8:19 pm
by clashcityrocker
right now, i dont have any bud... Im gonna go scraping in a little bit, go play some Silent hill 4.

anyway I never noticed this topic, when I used to have friends come over I rolled a 'j and said "This ones for dan..." and they asked "Whos dan?" and its funny cause if he was right there in that room hed be wondering "who the fuck are you people..."

Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 2:13 am
by Caro
Thank you CCR.

I was having such a hard day today coz a wave of grief caught me at work and that hasn't fully happened before. Tomorrow makes it 8 years to the day my big brother Ronnie was killed and Dan's birthday is also coming up (Oct 20).

I want to go back to the place he jumped, I don't know for some reason the disbelief has come back around, the last few days I just can't believe he's gone, all over again. My poor baby brother, God I love him so much it hurts. I just want to see him again, I can't wait to die. I hope it's the joyous reunion of my dreams, to see both of my siblings again. If nothing t least the pain of losing them will finally end. I know time heals but it also fades; my brother and the closet one to my heart will never be in my life again. It seems like just yesterday I had my last conversation with him, i remember he was about to go coz our call was breif and concerning business, and I was like wait, don't leave yet. What's up with you? And he told me, and then we said our I love you's and I'll never hear his voice again. If I could just talk to him on the phone this wouldn't be so bad, you know? I just want to tell him that I finally got my car and it's a stick, to hear him laugh. I need him to tell me things and watch him become a man. Fucking 17, such a bullshit age to die. Come back, Danny, come through somehow I'm hurting. Fuck you for not being safe you little shit. I know you didn't want to die, but hell man you could have taken some safety precautions diving on an 85 ft cliff into that river you never liked. I was feeling better about believing in you being just fine in spirit form but the reality of your ended life has taken control again in my mind and it is almost unbearable. Please, Danny....

Thank you, wg.... all day ive needed to cry and someone needs to listen, and I know that many people, friends and strangers, fellow stoners, have read of mt grief. It helps ease the burden a bit. Please take care in your pursuits lest you hurt your loved ones far worse than you can probably imagine.

Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 8:00 pm
by Tokin42
im sorry, caro. it is such a bullshit age to die. there have been so many deaths here recently. One kid got strangled in his backyard by a teather ball thing (he was in 7th grad), a girl got hit by a train (freshman in college), a kid ODed on heroin (another freshman in college), a senior in high school was in a car crash. theres more and they all suck. :?

Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 11:30 pm
by Sammy
To be honest, death scares the fuckin' crap outta me.

Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 11:38 pm
by cutthecashflow
True is this.

Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 12:18 am
by MarleyBoi
don't really know who this dan dude is, but i can definitely feel the pain of those who knew him in life. not entirely, since i didn't ever know him, but i know damn well what it's like to lose someone so horribly close to you, and i sympathize with all the people who were close to him. i'll be sure to smoke one for him