I'd be grateful for any help here, this is serious

Born of Fire · Post by **Born of Fire** » Thu Jan 08, 2004 12:34 pm

ok guys so most of you who know me would figure me as a cool, laid back sorta guy I guess (at least, that's how I see myself when I'm posting and my general life attitude) but at the moment I'm really really stressed, I have issues in life that I'd prefer not to talk about here (no offence guys, I'd trust you with anything else in the world) and I'm just wondering if any of you guys have any tips on relieving stress, either from learning or past experience, because I'm starting to really fall apart here and trying to keep it from the rest of the world makes it harder... I've talked to my most trusted cousin/friend who is like a brother to me, but he can't help me, and I know someone will come in here and say "smoke up" but I've been doing this for basically 2 years straight and it hasn't been helping since this started, so don't bother with that one (I know it's only good intentions tho guys) so yeah if any of you guys know anything that could help me I'd appreciate it, before I go and do something I regret

just because it's standard, here's my trademark ending of a post

The curious orange · Post by **The curious orange** » Thu Jan 08, 2004 1:26 pm

get a piece of wood, get a hammer and hammer the shit out that wood, of kick a ball against a wall as hard as you can, or any thing like that can help sometimes when stressed

bl8o m8o · Post by **bl8o m8o** » Thu Jan 08, 2004 2:49 pm

although its probably not the first thing on ur mind but talk to your parents or family, i've been stressed alot lately too, i'm failing all my subjects, and 1 term from the exams, but after talking to my mum im feeling alot better, she helped me out alot, parents can b very understanding in times of need

good luck man

just remember whatever happens you'll get thru it

Tlicious · Post by **Tlicious** » Fri Jan 09, 2004 1:31 am

If you don't say what the problem is that is stressing you out then how can i even begin to formulate an answer to your dilemma?

herbal stu · Post by **herbal stu** » Fri Jan 09, 2004 1:39 am

Go punch some shit until it hurts I took my hand to the walls and shit in the college toilets once smacked the tap too broke my pinky and the one left of it bled like shit! Sure took my mind off of what I was stressed about!

Doctor Doobie · Post by **Doctor Doobie** » Fri Jan 09, 2004 2:03 am

whenever i get stressed and I dont have doobie, i lay on my bed relax all my muscles and just think of good things, like good times smoking weed with friends. I lay down for at least 30 minutes, and if I didnt move a muscle i usually get up and im light headed and dizy

but it really does help relieve my stress.

Doctor Doobie · Post by **Doctor Doobie** » Fri Jan 09, 2004 2:06 am

either that or take a happy pill (hydrocodene) if you can get them. I call them happy pills because well...they always make me happy. Sometimes ill wake up from a nap feeling depressed and mad at something and i just get really pissed that the littlest things. I just pop one of my dads happy pills and im happy for the rest of the day.

Born of Fire · Post by **Born of Fire** » Sat Jan 10, 2004 8:30 am

I took the hammer and wood idea one step further and used an axe on a stump in our backyard, that helped a lot, and the lying down trick worked too, thanks guys, I'll try these and see how I go

btw Trance, i can't say what it is because it's just too personal... its different to if a relationship ended or a family member died, I'd just prefer to keep this to myself, but thanks anyway

the mac · Post by **the mac** » Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:33 pm

go beat someone up.

take seriously if u want

eazeyo · Post by **eazeyo** » Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:43 pm

get a hobby, find direction in life. Do something and dont just sit around allday. Maybe get a job if money is tough. If school is the prob, dont procrastinate, get all your work done, study well, and at the end light up a fat doobie.

Caro · Post by **Caro** » Sat Jan 10, 2004 7:14 pm

I'm surprised nobody's mentioned beating off.

It always helps me.

LiGhTuP · Post by **LiGhTuP** » Sun Jan 11, 2004 1:28 am

It depends what your problem is. Sometimes you can't just find something to fill that void or make the problem go away. Sometimes you just have to deal with the problem, which is the root of your stress.

blazed · Post by **blazed** » Sun Jan 11, 2004 1:35 am

its the opposite for me, i had many of problems from past years... anyways i guess weed made it easier to deal with and really changed my attitude. i am a very relaxed person...

Sammy · Post by **Sammy** » Sun Jan 11, 2004 3:22 am

Think of all the awesome things that have happened in your life, no negative thoughts. Whether it be gettin with that hot chick ( you know youre not ugly, when my gf was over i was lookin at the Mr.Weedguru thread and she said u were a hotty haha), blazin with your best mates, or jus something that makes you all happy and tingly. Re-live those moments man, actually PM me we may have similar issues

Tlicious · Post by **Tlicious** » Sun Jan 11, 2004 5:38 am

Born of Fire wrote:I took the hammer and wood idea one step further and used an axe on a stump in our backyard, that helped a lot, and the lying down trick worked too, thanks guys, I'll try these and see how I go

btw Trance, i can't say what it is because it's just too personal... its different to if a relationship ended or a family member died, I'd just prefer to keep this to myself, but thanks anyway

What i do when i'm mad is I just remind myself of what ANGER really is and that it doesnt do anything for me that i want, But if i get way too pissed off then i will eventually explode, but i'm pretty patient when it comes to conflicts

www.weedguru.com

I'd be grateful for any help here, this is serious

I'd be grateful for any help here, this is serious

stress

another thing

Who is online