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Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 3:40 pm
by blacky0g
Im new to weedguru and idk if this is the right place for this post but i have a problem. Awhile ago i had a gf and she seemed perfect in everyway possible and we was all happy n such, but then summer vacation came and we saw each other less because we live kind of faraway from each other. So there was a point in the summer where we seemed to kinda drift apart for like a week or so and didnt talk much or had rlly short conversation, so i had this gut feeling that shed break up wit me or sumthing like that but i just dismissed the feeling and cause me and her had seemed fine wed started to tlk like usual. Then she says she wants to take a break and it kinda caught me off guard cause i had thought things were fine, so for most of the break im in the dark like she hadnt set any rules or a timelimit at which shed tell me how she felt so i just kind of waited. Then after a month and a half of me bein confused at this time we were bout 2 weeks into the new skool yr she txt me sayin she wants to split way id kinda been hypin my self up and gettin ready for the breakup wen she said she wanted a break so i wasnt all that suprised. Its been 3 monhs and even though i thought i was over her everytime i c her in the hall or i hug her i feel all the feelins comeback So idk wat to do we txt each other once in awhile n i asked if she wanted to chill with me on monday since we didnt have skool and she said she didnt kno she had to check, so idk if shes just messing wit me or just wants to b friends. Culd ya give me suggestions or any ideas as to what go do?
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 7:13 pm
by Gorecore
My advice is to write her a poem. Make sure that it's from the heart. Give it to her at school, along with a single red rose and a mix tape.
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 7:39 pm
by andriaSRH
blacky0g wrote:Im new to weedguru and idk if this is the right place for this post but i have a problem.
Awhile ago i had a gf and she seemed perfect in everyway possible and we was all happy n such, but then summer vacation came and we saw each other less because we live kind of faraway from each other.
So there was a point in the summer where we seemed to kinda drift apart for like a week or so and didnt talk much or had rlly short conversation, so i had this gut feeling that shed break up wit me or sumthing like that but i just dismissed the feeling and cause me and her had seemed fine wed started to tlk like usual.
Then she says she wants to take a break and it kinda caught me off guard cause i had thought things were fine,
so for most of the break im in the dark like she hadnt set any rules or a timelimit at which shed tell me how she felt so i just kind of waited.
Then after a month and a half of me bein confused at this time we were bout 2 weeks into the new skool yr she txt me sayin she wants to split way id kinda been hypin my self up and gettin ready for the breakup wen she said she wanted a break so i wasnt all that suprised.
Its been 3 monhs and even though i thought i was over her everytime i c her in the hall or i hug her i feel all the feelins comeback
So idk wat to do we txt each other once in awhile n i asked if she wanted to chill with me on monday since we didnt have skool and she said she didnt kno she had to check, so idk if shes just messing wit me or just wants to b friends. Culd ya give me suggestions or any ideas as to what go do?
I would just ask her what type of relationship you two have.
Really..who are we to say what is going on in this chicks head?
Not to jump the gun, but the whole short of conversation thing (to me) hints that she was seeing someone behind your back over the summer but that's worse case scenerio.
If you're in high school that might not be the case.... teens these days are crazy and I cannot relate to them at all
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 8:23 pm
by blacky0g
Gorecore wrote:My advice is to write her a poem. Make sure that it's from the heart. Give it to her at school, along with a single red rose and a mix tape.
ill try that lol and @ andriaSRH i dont go to skool high dont want to mix weed and skool deyd mess each other up
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:13 pm
by AbbyRoad
Gorecore wrote:My advice is to write her a poem. Make sure that it's from the heart. Give it to her at school, along with a single red rose and a mix tape.
are you messin with the guy gore?
the mention of mix tape makes me think so
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:19 pm
by blackxs
Shes gone dude.
You need to stop focusing on how to get her back and start focusing on how to get back at her
Go get some strange
(actually my real advice is to not get back at her, just to leave it and find a better gf)
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:20 am
by andriaSRH
blacky0g wrote:Gorecore wrote:My advice is to write her a poem. Make sure that it's from the heart. Give it to her at school, along with a single red rose and a mix tape.
ill try that lol and @ andriaSRH i dont go to skool high dont want to mix weed and skool deyd mess each other up
I didn't say anything about going to school high but okay lol
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:10 am
by blacky0g
im lookin but a good girl is so hard to find in my skool
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:13 am
by andriaSRH
Can I ask you why you choose that username?
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:24 am
by blacky0g
its my nickname
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:26 am
by Weedguru Higher
Welcome Blacky number 2!
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:33 am
by andriaSRH
One is more than enough lol jk jk jk no but seriously.
Anyways welcome to the boards blackyog. You will always be number 1 to me.
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:38 am
by blacky0g
thank you thank you the show is running year round *applause*......so bout this ex gf buisness is it agreed i shuld stop tryin to get her back and totally move on?
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:43 am
by andriaSRH
Most definately.
Just move on and look for love someplace else...and if you feel like it along the way you could always hook up with a hotter chick to mind fuck your ex.
Re: Very Confused Bout My Ex
Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:52 am
by blacky0g
well i think i shall mind fuck her but i wanna find a girl worth dating so that while my ex gets her mind fucked i dont have to wrry bout the morals of do i rlly like the girl im wit or im usin her BLAHH BLAHH BLAHH kinda stuff cuz den im jus as bad as my ex