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And they disgust me. My roommates that is... Therefore, I'd like to move out when our lease ends, which is at the end of august. Do you guys think It'd be a jerk move to give them a months notice and say that I'm gonna peace no matter what? I hate to do it because I have actually grown to like one of them, even though he's unkempt and slobbish. Plus, they'd both have to either have to find a new roommate or a new place to live altogether in a month or pay my share of the rent until they could do so. We also work together... Not directly, but in the same building. So, we see quite a bit of each other... Might be awkward... I've tried twice to ask them if they would be a bit more fastidious about certain cleanliness issues, and they comply for about week then go back to being deplorable slobs *(at least by my standards) What do you guys suggest?

you should defiently move out. give them the months notice and tell them your leaving no matter what.
but you really shoul;d have given this more thought, so the awkward ness of the situation didnt exsist.
its prolly going to be tough for them so they will prolly bitch you out about it, but if you really want to leave then dont worry about it.
oh and remember, you brought the problem on yourself by not thinking about the leae situation sooner

If you are at least semi cool with these people , in my opinion.. it would be a for sure jerk move to only give them a months notice. How long have you been living with these people? Really I don't think you should do them over bogus because you decided last minute you can't stand living with them anymore

Since I'm a girl I'd have no problem offering to clean up after my roomates if they gave me weed or tossed me some money once in a while. If it's a major problem then before you turn into king dick you should at least have a serious and final talk with them about it. Don't be shady.....

I totally sympathize with your situation but I'm also looking at it from their point of view as well.

^ hes been going on about his roommates for months, im sure he was making the decision and is in the final stages of processing this situation and trying to not be a dick to the one he doesnt mind ( i think he means butt buddies, but whatever works for him)

Precisely. Thank you flyi...er...Bubbles. Butt buddies 4LyFe...

Stabbo's right. I should have been up front with them earlier on. But, if I end up living with the another year, I'll let them know that there's a good chance I'll be moving out at the end of the lease as soon as we re-sign it. I think a year, regardless of the burden it puts on them, is more than reasonable. Yes?

andriaSRH wrote:Since I'm a girl I'd have no problem offering to clean up after my roomates if they gave me weed or tossed me some money once in a while. If it's a major problem then before you turn into king dick you should at least have a serious and final talk with them about it. Don't be shady.....

I'm not a girl, and they definitely don't toss me anything....And they smell...

Bah, fuck. Maybe I'll just have to stick it out... Maybe steal some shit from them to even things out.

But goddamnit do I want out... I'd like a cat too. If I moved out I could get a cat...

if you do re-sign your lease and still wanna move out
you could always look for someone to sub-let too
and then youd be able to move somewhere else

Look, you have to be comfortable in your home, if you have two smelly slobby roommates that won't keep their shit in their own rooms, or whatever is causing you grief, then fuck em!

Not literally.


Just tell them the truth, you're sick and tired of having to live with two human garbage cans and thus will move out at the end of the lease, you give them four weeks to get their shit together and voila.

It's not like you owe them to stay there you know, do what you feel is best.

If you aren't happy about it... then move out.
One of my friends had cool roomies but stuff like not cleaning around the house and not cooking or helping out at the house (just one of the reasons) made her move out.
I don't think it'll be a big deal. If you don't want to tell them the reason of why you're moving out you don't have to.. or at least don't have to mention it's because of them. Who knows... maybe they'll think you found a better place or location... Plus if you don't mind one of them... it's not like you'll never speak to them again. you guys can always go out, you just won't have to deal with constant bs.
Anywho, good luck on whatever your decision will be. Do whatever will make YOU happier. You're allowed to be greedy sometimes :p

weedguru_waffles wrote:If you aren't happy about it... then move out.
One of my friends had cool roomies but stuff like not cleaning around the house and not cooking or helping out at the house (just one of the reasons) made her move out.
I don't think it'll be a big deal. If you don't want to tell them the reason of why you're moving out you don't have to.. or at least don't have to mention it's because of them. Who knows... maybe they'll think you found a better place or location... Plus if you don't mind one of them... it's not like you'll never speak to them again. you guys can always go out, you just won't have to deal with constant bs.
Anywho, good luck on whatever your decision will be. Do whatever will make YOU happier. You're allowed to be greedy sometimes :p

My thoughts exactly

pkkupo wrote:Precisely. Thank you flyi...er...Bubbles. Butt buddies 4LyFe...

Stabbo's right. I should have been up front with them earlier on. But, if I end up living with the another year, I'll let them know that there's a good chance I'll be moving out at the end of the lease as soon as we re-sign it. I think a year, regardless of the burden it puts on them, is more than reasonable. Yes?

andriaSRH wrote:Since I'm a girl I'd have no problem offering to clean up after my roomates if they gave me weed or tossed me some money once in a while. If it's a major problem then before you turn into king dick you should at least have a serious and final talk with them about it. Don't be shady.....

I'm not a girl, and they definitely don't toss me anything....And they smell...

Bah, fuck. Maybe I'll just have to stick it out... Maybe steal some shit from them to even things out.

But goddamnit do I want out... I'd like a cat too. If I moved out I could get a cat...

Yea dude just rob them lol. After all you did tell them they are messy a bunch of times and they still didn't listen. I know before I was like "Ahh thats bogus think of their feelings" but yeah...fuck that.

But..kitties are awesome.. You've got yourself into a bit of a mess here man

I can't wait to see you guys on Judge Judy in a few years!

Depends, mate, on how serious you have been with your words on the matter, to them. If you have been as clear as 'I understand people have different standards of living, but these are mine, and i simply cannot stand the way things are going here, in this house. I am not judging you, but for me to continue here, I need you people to make an sustained effort, if not, its in everyone's best interests if i leave, because my tolerance levels have peaked....'...then the next step is to follow through and leave. Good luck, young man.

Toonces wrote:I can't wait to see you guys on Judge Judy in a few years!

I was just imagining you and I on judge judy, fucker...you drinking newcastle brown and me necking vodka like a russian, the Judge looking cross, trying to be bossy, but the two of us, scrapping, the hugging, then scrapping, then drinking...proper english style. that bitch wouldnt know who to send down to the tombs!

I love the visual pictures you put into your words animal, makes reading your posts fun. I think you'd make a great writer, have you ever done any before?

crackrjak wrote:I love the visual pictures you put into your words animal, makes reading your posts fun. I think you'd make a great writer, have you ever done any before?

That's pretty funny.