Not sure I need advice but I wanna share this story.
Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 11:49 am
Whew, here it goes.
I dated this girl, Alyssa off and on for about 2 years. It was pretty much just a physical relationship. I ended up falling for her pretty bad, I guess she didn't with me. She got turned off by me actually being interested in what she did or whatever, so she cheated on me with my best friend Nick. We broke up, she stayed with my best friend Nick. They dated off and on up until like 3 months ago, but she's been back in his life a little in the last month or so.
We started letting this girl hang out with our group a little. Two of the girls that were in the group refused to hang out with Alyssa due to how she had treated my friend and I, but I don't think they get it. Sex with this girl is worth it, most the time. So when we party, my friend Miranda pretty much finds the closest person (within reason) to make out with. It might be a guy that she knows well, or one of her female friends. It is just for fun and she never takes it any farther. One night she made out with Alyssa for a while, but Alyssa kept coming back for more which I thought was strange.
Turns out for the last three weeks while I have been grounded Alyssa came out to Miranda telling her she was into girls and wanted to be with Miranda. Miranda lead her on wanting to get back at her for what she did to my friend and I. My friend Nick really got his feelings hurt over and over again because Alyssa would use her power over him and all that. Miranda tells Alyssa she might be into girls and if she was it would be Alyssa. They make out on occasion, on a few Alyssa has actually tried to get in Miranda's pants.
Enter scene, a party last night. Everyone is baked, drunk, taking morphine pills, etc. Nick and Alyssa hook up in the bathroom, which means something to Nick, nothing to Alyssa. Alyssa then leaves the bathrrom immediatley after having sex with Nick to go lay with Miranda and tell her how much she likes her and how much she wants to be with her.
Miranda is planning to tell Nick everything tomorrow because Nick thinks that somehow the two girls are ganging up on him to hurt his feelings or something, I don't really know. When I asked him today if he had seen Miranda he said "Oh I think she's mad at me or soemthing.".
Should I be as interested in this as I am?
I mean, I really liked Miranda, still do, I think. I really liked Alyssa. Don't anymore.
Why wouldn't this interest me???
Also, there is the girl I am going to prom with. I used to have a thing with her, she's spent the night at my house but we never hooked up or anything. I think she's a real hottie and is fun to be around. Plus she smokes. So at this point I am going to wait for us both to be off being grounded (this rich ass girl got arrested stealing clothes she could afford, hello Winnona) and I will let that be a "whatever happens, happens" type of thing. If I start to like her, I will work on that. If it feels like being friends is better, whatever.
I dated this girl, Alyssa off and on for about 2 years. It was pretty much just a physical relationship. I ended up falling for her pretty bad, I guess she didn't with me. She got turned off by me actually being interested in what she did or whatever, so she cheated on me with my best friend Nick. We broke up, she stayed with my best friend Nick. They dated off and on up until like 3 months ago, but she's been back in his life a little in the last month or so.
We started letting this girl hang out with our group a little. Two of the girls that were in the group refused to hang out with Alyssa due to how she had treated my friend and I, but I don't think they get it. Sex with this girl is worth it, most the time. So when we party, my friend Miranda pretty much finds the closest person (within reason) to make out with. It might be a guy that she knows well, or one of her female friends. It is just for fun and she never takes it any farther. One night she made out with Alyssa for a while, but Alyssa kept coming back for more which I thought was strange.
Turns out for the last three weeks while I have been grounded Alyssa came out to Miranda telling her she was into girls and wanted to be with Miranda. Miranda lead her on wanting to get back at her for what she did to my friend and I. My friend Nick really got his feelings hurt over and over again because Alyssa would use her power over him and all that. Miranda tells Alyssa she might be into girls and if she was it would be Alyssa. They make out on occasion, on a few Alyssa has actually tried to get in Miranda's pants.
Enter scene, a party last night. Everyone is baked, drunk, taking morphine pills, etc. Nick and Alyssa hook up in the bathroom, which means something to Nick, nothing to Alyssa. Alyssa then leaves the bathrrom immediatley after having sex with Nick to go lay with Miranda and tell her how much she likes her and how much she wants to be with her.
Miranda is planning to tell Nick everything tomorrow because Nick thinks that somehow the two girls are ganging up on him to hurt his feelings or something, I don't really know. When I asked him today if he had seen Miranda he said "Oh I think she's mad at me or soemthing.".
Should I be as interested in this as I am?
I mean, I really liked Miranda, still do, I think. I really liked Alyssa. Don't anymore.
Why wouldn't this interest me???
Also, there is the girl I am going to prom with. I used to have a thing with her, she's spent the night at my house but we never hooked up or anything. I think she's a real hottie and is fun to be around. Plus she smokes. So at this point I am going to wait for us both to be off being grounded (this rich ass girl got arrested stealing clothes she could afford, hello Winnona) and I will let that be a "whatever happens, happens" type of thing. If I start to like her, I will work on that. If it feels like being friends is better, whatever.