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so like this is a bit of a soppy topic but its like this...

i like this girl that ive known for a while n shes always flirtin n touchin me up n that. the other day i was at a party she was throwin n we got touchin n shit, we were jus about to start kissin when her mate comes over n reminds her about her bf (absolutely gutted). what can i do? i propper like her n im pretty sure she digs me

any help would be nice
peace

well if shes all over you like that then just tell her that you like her too, shell probably break up with her bf....worst comes to worst you might ahve to fight her bf are you bigger than him?

I suggest you have a talk with her alone. Quit the touching and all that and respect the fact that she has a man. Leave her to the decision of it being you or him.

whoo_hoo_jimny wrote:so like this is a bit of a soppy topic but its like this...

i like this girl that ive known for a while n shes always flirtin n touchin me up n that. the other day i was at a party she was throwin n we got touchin n shit, we were jus about to start kissin when her mate comes over n reminds her about her bf (absolutely gutted). what can i do? i propper like her n im pretty sure she digs me

any help would be nice
peace

man i kno ur pain, i been likin this one girl since yr 10 (which is about 4 years now) n we are pretty much best friends, but we're always flirtin a little like, well, shes usualy got a boyfriend like, so that leaves me in many sitautions similar to ye.
myself i tend to just wait it out like, tho it hasnt done me any good what-so-eva yet, psyclones advice sounds tha best tho...

freerider_dude wrote:well if shes all over you like that then just tell her that you like her too, shell probably break up with her bf....worst comes to worst you might ahve to fight her bf are you bigger than him?

yea man bout 3 years of weight training difference lol i dont wanna have to resort to that tho, cos i mean i respect that he got there first n i wouldnt want the same to happen to me. same time tho, i jus wanna kick his ass lol

Psyclone wrote:I suggest you have a talk with her alone. Quit the touching and all that and respect the fact that she has a man. Leave her to the decision of it being you or him.

yea man i get u but i kno theres sumthin there with me n her n has been since i met her...i dunno i should probly jus give up huh?

No, if she likes you more than her boyfriend then why would you back out?

Its like the old school rap song.
"I got a man" "What's your man got to do with me"

I'd hit it.

there are a lot of these posts....
maybe there should be a new section of the forums on
relationship advice and dr phil issues

I'd hit it too. Get in there, thats what ive always said. and if anyone asks, say you were really drunk. If her boyfriends a nice dude, he'll understand.

Dakine wrote:I'd hit it too. Get in there, thats what ive always said. and if anyone asks, say you were really drunk. If her boyfriends a nice dude, he'll understand.

He'll understand that a guy is fucking his girlfriend behind his back?...I wish I was as understanding as that.

I found out once that my girl was cheating with a buddy of mine.

Me and my buddy called her a whore and had a good laugh while taking large bong rips.

no fightin, respect shes got a man, coz ud be reli fucked up if that happened to u and he'll probably go phyco on u if he found out u wer touch in her up n shit. Just say to her, do u want me or him. Take that answer and the funny thing is... if she got with you how could you not expect her to touch sum1 else with you? Your not exactly different than her current bf.

whoo_hoo_jimny wrote:yea man i get u but i kno theres sumthin there with me n her n has been since i met her...i dunno i should probly jus give up huh?

man, wudnt suggest givin up, i done that, tis a long, boring, agonising, even more boring and anoying trip
if u r like me, n realyl good friends with em, man that sucks ass so much, ur just there, playin all cool when they're with some jerk who just plays with her n fucks her all up (and this has happened almost everytime now) n it pisses me off everytime, n everytime she breaks up, shes so fucked up frommit, i see it more as takin advantage than anything else, so just stay friends, n comfort her as a friend, but anyway, i am going WAY off topic, dnt give up man, its a shitty road, lol

I disagree with nutter, don't be just her friend especially for a good amount of time or else you will get into the friendship zone and you won't be able to get out of it.

CaNuCk wrote:I disagree with nutter, don't be just her friend especially for a good amount of time or else you will get into the friendship zone and you won't be able to get out of it.

umm... ur actualy agreeing with me there, i was saying that he shouldnt do what i did, it sucks
(thats what i was meanin to put across anyway)