some advice....

[Markus Aralius]

Ok heres the situation.....im a smoker for over a year.....my gf on the otherhand has looked down on it since iv met her, i have even quit for her....now she's starting to grow up and see the light....says she wants to try it with me! ahhh...im nervous though i want her first time getin high to be something special...like mine(best night of my life)...i realy care about her too and dont want to see her go down the wrong path...also do i teache her the ways of the smoking world first or what idk this is stressing me out for somereason!

some advice on how i should approach this would be nice

oh also it wont happen till summer....so i have some time....

thx u all for the advice....
~Markus aralius

[PuffPuffGive]

Well first off dont ever stress on anything man especially something like this, and secondly as long as she rly wants too smoke her out but remember dont even get rly excited because then if she decides against trying it she may be afraid of making u angry woth her for it, and seeing as you have till summer you could just teach her the basics between then and now you know prices and weights, how to tell from good bud and schwag just so as if she ever decides to uy some she dozsnt get jipped another thing tot ell her would probably be street names smoking devices and how to use them (and remember dont be mean because shes a newb I remember years back the first time i smoked from a pipe i didnt know about the carb I got skipped that rotationa nd my friends older brother never let me forget about it) now dont pour all this on her at once since you have a couple months take your time with it teach her to roll and see if she enjoys it ( some ppl love rolling some dont) but remember dont push her in to anything she dosnt want to do herself

[Dr. Greenthumb]

Yeah very well put, just let things run their coarse. Dont try to explain too much to her just answer questions as she asks. I learned most of my newbie info from the guy who first smoked me out. He pretty much taught me all the basic, but its not like he went of lecturing me about smoking. Just answer her question and elaborate on your answers, she'll either get high or she won't. Either way she will either see how good it can be or how harmless it can be.

[BlueBull]

What I think is important in this case too is: don't set a specific time or date, just let it happen, maybe a quiet night at your house, and you happen to have some bud handy, you have to make sure there is NO pressure at all on her shoulders, it has to come natural, not forced...

Cheers

[canadianbud]

Don't even bother telling her weights and good bud from bad. wait til you smoke with her, just take her to inhale, make sure she doesnt smoke too much and whitey cos that sorta puts people off it. if she likes it, then you start teaching her different aspects of it.

[rusianrocket321]

just make sure when she first hits it...make SURE you teach her hit, inhale, THAN exhale...i remember i was htiting it wrong and was pretty much jsut wasting weed my first few times..also if she tries it and doesnt like it, suggest to try it again because she prolly wont get high her first time anyway...

[CupaJoe84]

I remember last year when i was in that situation because i smoked so much and my girlfriend at the time was curious. when she wanted to do it we did it behind her garage and she had a real good time. after that we occasionally when we were with friends sometimes to enhance things . turned out to be a real good thing.