making the first move...

blackxs · Post by **blackxs** » Sat Aug 25, 2007 8:56 pm

wow.

dude next time, just be confident and play everything off cool. dont act too interested in her and dont be the really nice best friend guy. be a ladies man, talk to her, flirt with her, but as soon as she thinks "does he like me?" you need to be flirting with someone else right in front of her. she will wonder what isnt great about her, and go for you to prove herself.

Jay212 · Post by **Jay212** » Sat Aug 25, 2007 9:12 pm

blackxs wrote:wow.

dude next time, just be confident and play everything off cool. dont act too interested in her and dont be the really nice best friend guy. be a ladies man, talk to her, flirt with her, but as soon as she thinks "does he like me?" you need to be flirting with someone else right in front of her. she will wonder what isnt great about her, and go for you to prove herself.

ok lets just slow it down a little bit. right now you're just making shit up trying to sound like you know what you're talking about..

DONT EVER flirt with one girl, then flirt with a different girl in front of the first one. Girls dont like players and thats a nice way to get labeled.

I duno, i'm no genius or anything, but if I was talking to a girl and she wasn't acting too interested in me, then i saw her flirting with another guy infront of me 30 minutes later... I'm only gona want her less.

blackxs · Post by **blackxs** » Sat Aug 25, 2007 9:15 pm

Really? Because ive had nothing but a lot of interested girls after flirting with several. Girls want to be played a little, thats why so many of them date jackasses. Im not saying to like majorly flirt with her, but just maybe crack a joke to her, then joke around with another girl too. Not like make a move on her, then make a move on another girl...

Jay212 · Post by **Jay212** » Sat Aug 25, 2007 9:30 pm

Ooh pimp over here. how old are you?

SystemOfAUp · Post by **SystemOfAUp** » Sun Aug 26, 2007 11:43 pm

blackxs wrote:wow.

dude next time, just be confident and play everything off cool. dont act too interested in her and dont be the really nice best friend guy. be a ladies man, talk to her, flirt with her, but as soon as she thinks "does he like me?" you need to be flirting with someone else right in front of her. she will wonder what isnt great about her, and go for you to prove herself.

I appreciate the advice, but that sounds like shooting myself in the foot. Maybe that works for you, but i think if i tried that even if she went for it she would end up wondering later on. Seriously though, thanks for the advice, I think I'll take that first sentance and wing the rest of it. Well, I'm off... Happy toking and wish me luck

JokersAce · Post by **JokersAce** » Mon Aug 27, 2007 5:27 am

lol, that is shooting your foot, but waiting for things to happen might as well be shooting your foot too.

SystemOfAUp · Post by **SystemOfAUp** » Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:55 pm

Eh school decided we need to pick up our own schedules before class instead of them giving it to us. I saw her for maybe 2 minutes and she was with a friend so I never got a real chance to talk to her. Tomarrow though if shes still with her friend I'll just get her to go avay for a few minutes.

Oh I'm pretty much done with sitting on my ass waiting, I'm not going to verbally bitch slap her like someone told me to do a couple weeks ago but I am going to make sure she knows I'm interested. Even then, I really don't have anything to worry about I think, only one other guy is trying to get with her and he is an annoying pudgy fucker that keeps trying to convince her shes his... she tells him off and laughs at him. Got a good feeling about tomarrow

4*20 · Post by **4*20** » Tue Aug 28, 2007 3:51 am

Yeah well if you feel the slightest awkwardness I'd suggest you'd call the plan off. She's starting school so she's pretty thrilled and busy about all of that.
I'd suggest you'd wait about a week ; for her to get bored and seeking for excitement, and to see there is no interesting prospect in her classes (sorry bro but you gotta be aware of the possibility that she could turn you off just to keep her options open)
On the other hand this could turn against you too in the future so please ignore that last comment...

Anyways, She probably trusts you a lot by now, since you guys have been hanging out so much.
Hang on and strenghten this great bound you two have created by hanging out. Make sure she is totally confortable with more. If you have doubts, like it was said earlier; play it cool.

AbbyRoad · Post by **AbbyRoad** » Tue Aug 28, 2007 6:27 pm

i got cock blocked last night

Post by **WeedGuru_Flow** » Tue Aug 28, 2007 7:46 pm

^can you explain that to me?

4*20 · Post by **4*20** » Tue Aug 28, 2007 9:16 pm

abby wrote:i got cock blocked last night

by whom? Friend, parent, the cock itself???

SystemOfAUp · Post by **SystemOfAUp** » Thu Aug 30, 2007 1:10 am

yesterday I asked her and she told me she wasnt ready yet, but it looked like she really thought about it for a moment. Then today one of my friends (who's also a really close friend of hers) walked up to me and told me that she'd talk to her. I dunno, I'll keep with what I'm doing now, talk to her whenever I see her and keep having parties every few weeks-months and if that friend was right in that soon after school started shed be ready... Either way, I think I have a pretty good chance with her.

Hm.. I'll have to get a half-ounce or so for friend since she's helped so much.

Happy toking, I'm off to go do just that

JokersAce · Post by **JokersAce** » Thu Aug 30, 2007 1:51 am

4*20 wrote:
abby wrote:i got cock blocked last night
by whom? Friend, parent, the cock itself???

It was in the doorway!

AbbyRoad · Post by **AbbyRoad** » Thu Aug 30, 2007 4:10 am

ok heres the story. my bf and i were downstairs in my basement. making out and follign around for like an hour, naked. making our way up to actual sex. i didnt think my brother and his friends were gonna be home that night since they had taken the guitar hero with them where ever they had gone, so ian and i were in the big basement bed. then right after he had finished going down on me we heard people enter my house and head toward the basement stairs. so we threw a blanket on. then the guys (my brand derek) walked in. my bro took one look at our pants on the floor and left. derek was fuckin wasted. and just sat on the couch. i laughed for like 2 mins. then told derek we were obviously naked and asked him to leave. he said NO. then i said just leave the room so we can get dressed. he said NO. said it wasnt his problem that it was ours. and just sat there while ian and i were traped naked under a blanket. i yelled at him that it was my house and i wanted him to levae. but he fucking wouldnt. i was fuckin ass naked! so after like 10 mins of him just sitting wasted on the couch talking to us ian had the brilliant idea of offereing him a bowl if he would just let us ger dress. that got derek moving. so then we all got ripped (again for ian and i) and then ian and i went upstairs afyer about 2 hours of chillin with the guys to my tiny twin bed andfucked our minds out. seriously the best sex we have ever had. like it was so passionate i could even control what i was doing. he did me so hard that like my stomach felt kinda uncomfortabel with his thrusts. it was fucking aweosme:)

blackxs · Post by **blackxs** » Thu Aug 30, 2007 6:16 am

your stomach felt uncomfortable?

im glad i have a penis and must not be concerned with such things.

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