making the first move...

joey is a noob · Post by **joey is a noob** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:04 pm

lol thanks for all the suppport! things worked out for the best i guess

this girl is a flirt so i hope im not getting lead on

4*20 · Post by **4*20** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 10:46 pm

joey is a noob wrote: Oh yeah i forgot to mention how we got stuff in the open with each other last night...i took your adivce and put my feelings out there without coming on too strongly, (WayToGo) it seems that right now shes not ready seeing how shes sprung over some guy that is one of those players, you know, the kind that just play into w.e she wants to hear but really goes out the next night and fucks around(she even knows it but something keeps her coming back? any though cause it puzzles me?)

SaSsyCat wrote:play THEM and then you'll understand the basics of human psychology : someone interested in you is not as interesting as someone who's not!

She likes him because he gives her contradictory signals that makes her feel at times like some hot mamasita he wants to go out with, and others like some random bitch he has no respect for but wants to fuck, and she just unconsciously needs to proves herself she's worth his attention. It's all about gaining and maintaining self-confidence but it's not the healthy way to deal with it. Don't try to understand girls that fall for any kind of wannabe pimps; they just don't know how to discern rotten apples from the rest.

Congrats on the slick move that's been up. Keep it sweet.

tebulot · Post by **tebulot** » Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:57 am

well what happened??? this is worse than a cancelled anime series! are/were you being led on?

SystemOfAUp · Post by **SystemOfAUp** » Tue Aug 14, 2007 10:03 pm

I know, right? Joey man whats new? you and that girl still together?

joey is a noob · Post by **joey is a noob** » Tue Aug 14, 2007 11:38 pm

holy crap this topic still around

? yeah me and my girl are still together...i just hope things dont get too serious lol, that player guy however is still in the picture, he knows when im around not to try stuff but im still skeptical that he's not trying to pull a fast one when im not around....thanks for caring so much guys your advice has helped me loads!

SystemOfAUp · Post by **SystemOfAUp** » Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:56 am

I asked about my problem and then I saw this and it looked like you had a similar thing going on that i do now, so I thought I might be able to pick up something that the other dudes have said as advice to you. Glad to hear you and that girl are still together,

joey is a noob · Post by **joey is a noob** » Wed Aug 15, 2007 1:58 pm

n.p man....yeah i just read your topic and it seems to me like your chick is pretty cool/well suited for you....best advice i can give is to not force anything because if you do and shit blows up in your face not only do you feel terrible you also just made it awkward with your girl, let tihngs take its course

SystemOfAUp · Post by **SystemOfAUp** » Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:08 pm

yeah I'm not going to force her into anything, I don't want to fuck this up... I seriously think she might be ready to get together, thinking about asking her either the 20th at this party im having or when school starts the next week

JokersAce · Post by **JokersAce** » Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:44 pm

I hope for you guy's sake that your not being too nice and 'un-forceful'.

blackxs · Post by **blackxs** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 5:02 am

be aggresive! trust me! biggest first major gf/bf problem is not being aggresive...

SystemOfAUp · Post by **SystemOfAUp** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 5:47 pm

what exactly do you mean by.. "agressive"?

JokersAce · Post by **JokersAce** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 6:15 pm

what exactly do you mean by forceful?

SpRi7e · Post by **SpRi7e** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 6:42 pm

what exactly do you mean by un-forceful?

swanee89 · Post by **swanee89** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 6:48 pm

stop, please

JokersAce · Post by **JokersAce** » Fri Aug 17, 2007 3:37 am

SpRi7e wrote:what exactly do you mean by un-forceful?

unagressive

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