Men wants sex, Women wants money

[Mate]

Just remember.. it's hard not to think about sex with a girl when she's wearing a shirt and her boobs are all perked up and sticking out.. If she's wearing jeans or something to make her ass show up more. The way people dress.. and the way that girls flirt a little (maybe just for attention.. a little insecurity?) but girls do LOTS of little subtle things that even they might not realize that attracts guys. It's just the way we're hardwired... there's nothing wrong with that. I would have to say there's definitely more to the 95% thing.. sure, a lot of people may think that.. but just having sex isn't the only thing men think about.. at least me. To be honest if a girl isn't up to par on her intelligence and she's dressed..not slutty, but wearing really sexy clothes.. then all I'll see her as is a girl that could be a good fuck. Now if she can have a fun conversation, and she has a good personality that can be matched up good with mine. Then sex is definitely not the only reason why I'm talking to her.

Remember, it's how you want to be portrayed.. the girl who everyone wants to bone (and girls you know there's a LOT of you out there) or the girl with a legit personality and a strong person.

I guess that second one though develops more on once a girls insecurities are more gone.

i haven't read like half of these responses, but i hope i didn't repeat what someone said

you've repeated what i said about sex appealing chicks who has nothing to offer but their body. lol
but i forgive you. you're a scorpio.

[SpRi7e]

haha, well at least I know I'm on the same page as every one else now thinking that

[Bubbles]

Just remember.. it's hard not to think about sex with a girl when she's wearing a shirt and her boobs are all perked up and sticking out.. If she's wearing jeans or something to make her ass show up more. The way people dress.. and the way that girls flirt a little (maybe just for attention.. a little insecurity?) but girls do LOTS of little subtle things that even they might not realize that attracts guys. It's just the way we're hardwired... there's nothing wrong with that. I would have to say there's definitely more to the 95% thing.. sure, a lot of people may think that.. but just having sex isn't the only thing men think about.. at least me. To be honest if a girl isn't up to par on her intelligence and she's dressed..not slutty, but wearing really sexy clothes.. then all I'll see her as is a girl that could be a good fuck. Now if she can have a fun conversation, and she has a good personality that can be matched up good with mine. Then sex is definitely not the only reason why I'm talking to her.

Remember, it's how you want to be portrayed.. the girl who everyone wants to bone (and girls you know there's a LOT of you out there) or the girl with a legit personality and a strong person.

I guess that second one though develops more on once a girls insecurities are more gone.

i haven't read like half of these responses, but i hope i didn't repeat what someone said

this. he said what i couldnt.

[Grrrl]

The jist of it was.....you should be grateful that a guy wants to buy you gifts just to see you smile. Not saying he should pay your bills, but yeah..you are thinking too much into it. Let's say you meet the guy of your dreams but he is rich...you're telling me you would most likely not be with him because of the money he makes?

I can see it being a little odd if a guy buys you a gift everytime you fight, but if he buys you things here and there, in my
eyes there isn't anything wrong with that. If a guy bought me something as a gift then said I had to pay him back at a later date I would seriously laugh in his face.

It is a scenario that would not happen, as my perfect fella wouldn't be wadded with cash cos he would have given his riches to people who really neded it. Money, material objects and other such gains are way off the mark for traits I deem of importance when I'm looking for a potential mate. To me, I generally feel people who have alot of money do so because they are greedy, if that wasn't the case, they would share their wealth and just live a comfortable and moderate life, but I'm prolly just being a big commie and I doubt many people would feel the same.

Suprises, gifts, if the thought is there (and that thought isn't guilt) then I dont think thats an issue as long as they dont become expected by the reciever. Plus I would always reciprocate the notion, not through obligation but because I would want to make that person smile.

[andriaSRH]

Sounds like you want a Ghandi type

I would be a liar if I said money wasn't a factor in what I find in a mate. Dating a complete scrub would get old after a while.

[weedguru_animal]

Sounds like you want a Ghandi type

I would be a liar if I said money wasn't a factor in what I find in a mate. Dating a complete scrub would get old after a while.

depends entirely on what you mean, Andria, by 'complete scrub'...the most wicke woman i have been with are interested solely in character, in integrity, in heart, in potential devotion and consuming value, of the man to them and the lady to the man...so please elaborate???

[Mate]

There's a gap between rich guys and normal guys that works and still make some money.

[andriaSRH]

Sounds like you want a Ghandi type

I would be a liar if I said money wasn't a factor in what I find in a mate. Dating a complete scrub would get old after a while.

depends entirely on what you mean, Andria, by 'complete scrub'...the most wicke woman i have been with are interested solely in character, in integrity, in heart, in potential devotion and consuming value, of the man to them and the lady to the man...so please elaborate???

Meaning a loser with no job ,who sits around all day and expects the other person to pay for everything.

[Mate]

it's so ironic it sounds like your bf.
exept i think he may have a job.

[Grrrl]

if everyone was a 'ghandi type' the world would be a much more pleasurable place to dwell...

[andriaSRH]

^ So true. Although the world would be a boring place without bad boys and rebellious types.

it's so ironic it sounds like your bf.
exept i think he may have a job.

Correction... he isn't a scrub, he is a bum. But yea, he does have a job.

4. Bum 316 up, 102 down
who does nothing all day and expects everyone to bend over backwards to please them.

[Mate]

i couldnt handle a bum girl, hahaha

exept when i'M alone and that i play chess, i GOT to move, spend energy, do things and keep myself in shape.
i totally replaced video games by sports and activities with people.

hope he changes. because i'm sure it won't even last a year..

[andriaSRH]

He already went back to his old ways. For a little bit he was actually cleaning up after himself..but of course now the room is a mess because I refuse to pick up after him. All we do now is play disc golf once a week, watch movies and eat. I am so sick of eating ...lol.

Ughh, I feel like a caged bird.

[JokersAce]

How can we expect to have a deep conversation related to sexual philosophies when the title isn't even grammatically correct.

[andriaSRH]

Lol

Didn't even notice until you brought it up.