i need ur advice on sex...

weedguru tom · Post by **weedguru tom** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 11:20 am

if he wants you for the person you are he will wait as long as you want, but dont wait to long or it will ruin it

Funk Doctor · Post by **Funk Doctor** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 12:21 pm

ginger chain wrote:ok listen carefully. This is the way to make sure:

Tell him now that you are not comfortable and you'd rather wait (don't give him any suggestion of how long he has to wait though), and if he sticks around then on christmas, surprise him and go for it (but only if you really are comfortable).

while i'm writing this, i might as well mention that what happened to me is these bunch of guys (and i mean horny guys) i got 'involved' with who are too old for me except maybe the 18 year old.. anyways, they kept bugging me and telling me they think I'm gay and i was like ok, wtf haha, then why are you hitting on me if you think that. anways. i'd had shrooms, pot, hash, tobacco all at once so i was totally fucked up, then the 18 year old guy gave me this drink and it looked like water. he's like here, drink some water. It's some good inspiration. meanwhile i was off in la la land moving my hands unconciously like the guys do in fear and loathing in las vegas, you know how theyre hands go all weird? k anyawys, so he's like its ok, trust me. i was like meh, ok and took a good gulp. ...and felt my hand thump down to the table. it was soooooo strong, like hard liquor or something.. i don't know what it was and the er 'consequences of this.. well i got hurt.

anyway. oh, and at that point i was not comfortable with sex. anyways.. girls: Beware.

Sounds like some prick in my class. Every friday and saturday when he goes out he tries to get girls drunk and then fuck them. It always amuses me to see him fail miserably.

herbal stu · Post by **herbal stu** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 4:03 pm

ginger chain wrote:anyways.. girls: Beware.

Just to be PC and even up the sex equality thang lads beware there some skanks out there too!

LostCanadian · Post by **LostCanadian** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 6:50 pm

i say dont do it.. i mean there are some people who dont care whether or not it means something and some people that do... and you seem to be one of the people that in this case cares.. so i dont think you should because if hes just one of those people that in this case doesnt care and has no emotion behind the sex then your just going to get your feelings hurt. you need to pace yourself.. talk about it.. decide if its worth the possiblity of you getting hurt... and make sure you got protection because there is always the risk of having a kid and im sure you dont want that to happen!

LostCanadian · Post by **LostCanadian** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 6:55 pm

ginger chain wrote:ok listen carefully. This is the way to make sure:

Tell him now that you are not comfortable and you'd rather wait (don't give him any suggestion of how long he has to wait though), and if he sticks around then on christmas, surprise him and go for it (but only if you really are comfortable).

while i'm writing this, i might as well mention that what happened to me is these bunch of guys (and i mean horny guys) i got 'involved' with who are too old for me except maybe the 18 year old.. anyways, they kept bugging me and telling me they think I'm gay and i was like ok, wtf haha, then why are you hitting on me if you think that. anways. i'd had shrooms, pot, hash, tobacco all at once so i was totally fucked up, then the 18 year old guy gave me this drink and it looked like water. he's like here, drink some water. It's some good inspiration. meanwhile i was off in la la land moving my hands unconciously like the guys do in fear and loathing in las vegas, you know how theyre hands go all weird? k anyawys, so he's like its ok, trust me. i was like meh, ok and took a good gulp. ...and felt my hand thump down to the table. it was soooooo strong, like hard liquor or something.. i don't know what it was :? and the er 'consequences of this.. well i got hurt.

anyway. oh, and at that point i was not comfortable with sex. anyways.. girls: Beware.

that was some sort of alcohol... i cant remember what its called but there is nothing else like it... it is colorless, odorless, and tastless... but it is extremly strong. i saw it on a detective show.. a while back there was this guy who would pick up prostitute and he would get them drunk with that stuff and kill them

blazed · Post by **blazed** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 6:57 pm

ghb?

Tarential · Post by **Tarential** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 7:35 pm

GBH is a possibility.

Doped Up Dan · Post by **Doped Up Dan** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 8:23 pm

that stuff... GBH righ? dont sound too bad, i wouldnt mind that, unlike absenth, has ne1 tried that, shit it smells like nail varnish remover, and i would guess it tastes like it to

teh · Post by **teh** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 8:36 pm

dont think GBH is the name of the drink.. is it?

GBH - Grevious Bodily Harm, i.e. violence

Absinth, never drank it meself, but i heard somit about it, can't remember whether it was good or bad

[plz correct me if GBH is the name of the drink

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blazed · Post by **blazed** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 9:35 pm

its GHB guys, not GBH...

http://www.erowid.org/chemicals/ghb/ghb.shtml

weedguru tom · Post by **weedguru tom** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 9:41 pm

absinth is funny shit gets you pissed fast, after shock is good too, makes me violent though`

Midnight_Toker69 · Post by **Midnight_Toker69** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 10:50 pm

Gurl, all I can say is in my opinion...don't do it. There's pleanty of time in life for sex...and it should be w/ someone your dating, not just casually...especially your 1st time. I could understand maybe if he was your best dude friend that u trusted a whole lot, but if your just friends w/ this dude...I would totally not do it myself. Maybe hold off the sex with this guy for awhile at least? Get to know him a bit better, then see if he likes u for more then just ass. Then if he does like u...date him, if he doesn't, but u still wanna have sex w/ this dude...then be friends w/ benefits 1st. Start out slower then jumpin right into sex. But the guys around here...jus say if they heard that u were havin casual sex...they'd either be like "slut" or "hell yea!" (but thinkin "fuck em and leave em"). Wouldn't u rather save your virginity for a guy u've been goin out w/ for a lil while? Rather then just to some dude? Cuz yes..I am a virgin...and I've had SEVERAL times to have sex...I've had so many guy friends ask me and I wouldn't do it. I've had boyfriends ask me...but I wouldn't do it, cuz we hadn't been datin for long enuf (turns out one of em....after he started askin me more..and saw that I wasn't gonna put out...he dumped me like a few weeks later...figures...) So in my opinion, keep your virginity, don't be ashamed of it.
But if u do decide to go threw w/ it...make sure he wears a condom...your well uh.."lubed" before hand, make sure he has no stds, pleanty of foreplay before hand, and thats about all I can really tell ya I guess.

herbal stu · Post by **herbal stu** » Tue Dec 16, 2003 12:56 am

U said it all right yo words truly to proud of stand up for yourself and be counted be strong!

the mac · Post by **the mac** » Tue Dec 16, 2003 2:35 am

HAHAHAHA Caro LoL

sounded like a glass of moonshine...?

If you wanna have sex, go for it. if you dont mind casual sex, why not?
but you dont seem like a casual sex kind of person considering you havent even had sex, you would know if you wanted to go through with it, If You want to then do it. but if u have any doubt weither you should do it, or that you might regret losing your virginity now dont.

sounds sorta like the "deal" i have with some girl. not completely, when she stops going out with her current boyfriend (whenever that is, soon though i know that) we are gunna have some fun

not just right away sex, but it will come

. i know im ready and wont regret it, and she said she was so it should be fun

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