it takes time and practice to get that right, trust me, i know, how do you think i got the title certified nutter?
after many years am pretty good at pulling random shit out the bag and it seems more acceptable, and less crazy than earlier stuff, haha
but seriously, first gf, no go, i am serious, unless ur a born natural u will freak them out at first, as i sed, this takes time, you cant go from quiet n shy to extremely random, they will think you have snapped, lol
play it out as it is, try n get more involved, but just make sure u enjoy urself, ur still young, if u wanna try the random stuff, save it for a bit later, 14 is a terrible age for people judging others over simple shit
(btw, reading it through, this is not a dig at u at all hookah, reading it i realise this may b a lil hostile to u, soz ifit is, not meant that way, i can appreciate it, as i have been through something similar - i dont get the 'that was cute' bit, its more 'something funny always happens with him' lol - but either way, not meant to be a dig at u, i just dnt think it would be best for him to try this just yet, cud loose him his g/f

lol)
anyways, thats me done, take care guys