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Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 1:55 pm
by blazedsubaru
Wow, I'm soo sorry!!
I hope things get better for you, you can find a better guy than that!

Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 7:00 pm
by weedguru+chrisisonfire
dump his ass abby.

As much as it hurts. Mutuality is key, and you guys dont have it.
If I (as a guy that is currently in love) would fall in love with a girl, i wouldnt even THINK of two timing to her and lying to her. And THEN have the balls to reason with you that the two timin is the way it should be.
It shouldnt be Abby. I know..im giving you a bit of tough love girl. But youre a great girl and youll find a guy that will sesh with you everyday and his eyes will be ever fixated on you. Thats the way it should be...No deal on this one. You deserve better.

I hope this helps

Posted: Tue May 01, 2007 1:45 pm
by Mate
abby wrote:ok so adam(his name is adam) and i had another talk. he told me he wasnt completely honest with me during our first talk.
i think the bases of a solid relationship is to be HONEST.
communication is bullshit without honesty.
if he can't be honest one time, he can't be honest many times.
abby, if someone can't be honest with the person he suposed to love, then, there's a serious problem.

Plus, he claims that he can't be with you ?
wow wow wow. what the FUCK
you are his girlfriend.
he should take a sec of his SO overloaded schoolboy life to organise something with you, i don't know
i remember when i was with my Girlfriend, i was craving to be with her, i needed it, it was part of my schedule.
i mean
she was my GIRLFRIEND, and it's cause i LOVED her and wanted to be with her.
i was skipping class to be with her, i dumped friends to be with her.
Love includes sacrifice, but they WORTH it, if you truly love the person.
when you love someone, you want to be with this person
cause you love this person.
it's that logic.

and wait,
have i read another girl???
wait i'll scroll down , just to be sure
abby wrote:there is another girl, named annemarie. he said he wasnt cheating on me with her, they just work togther and like each other.
This is ridiculous.
WHY another girl ?
what is he looking for ?
i just don't understand this guy.

in my opinion, this guy is the main cause of
abby wrote:god guys my life is such a mess.
i'm not telling you what to do, but from i wrote, i'm sure you can do a decision that make sense.

Oh, for your information
abby wrote:or you can just tell me how much of a moron i am.
Not at all =)

Posted: Tue May 01, 2007 4:24 pm
by AbbyRoad
well he doesnt love me, so im not even going to worry about that. im kinda not his gf anymore, but kinda am. and i think im ok with it for now. im gonna date other ppl and maybe one of those ppl will make me feel better then he does and if they do ill leave him. but right now I STILL WANT HIM. and he wants me. but not exclusively. so now we are in a open relationship. and i think its gonna work, but i may very well be wrong. and im ready for that. i dont think he could hurt anymore then he already has. but i think annemarie is only a temp thing. she has proven herself to be very fickle like leaving him when he went out of town. and hes not gonna start seeing her till like the end of june. she could feel totally diff about him by then. but i think... actually i dont even know what i think

Posted: Tue May 01, 2007 5:45 pm
by weedguru+chrisisonfire
you deserve better.

nuff said.

Posted: Tue May 01, 2007 5:49 pm
by Mate
Love's blind, chris.
Love's blind.