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[SpRi7e]

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damn that sucks andria, I hope it all works out the best for ya..

off topic, but my dad got SO close to winning the lottery last night, every number was only 1 off besides the last one that he got

Abortion is no joke. My sister got a couple abortions and I have lost all respect for her. The least I can do it own up to my mistakes and see it through.

DUDE. If your dad actually would have won would you fly all the cool wee gees to your neck of the woods to party?

Who said I was joking? I see absolutely nothing wrong in abortion under certain circumstances..I see it as torture to put a kid through life when you aren't ready to handle it. If you do drugs while you're still prego, there is a great chance he will have some sort of mental problems in his future.

Putting it up for adoption would be great as long as you are fully committed to being sober for the next 9 months, but if you aren't, I see it as being more irresponsible then getting it aborted.

I for one would go APE SHIT at a girl if she did ANY drugs while my baby was in her...

with the lottery thing though, FUCK YEAH I WOULD! I'd fly in every person I could and have the biggest, most badass party's for everyone on arrival plus more... gotta share the love right?

[andriaSRH]

Oh, I get you. I smoked a cig yesterday and I toked a little. Pretty sure it wasn't enough to put the seedling in any danger.

My bf and I haven't had a real discussion about it yet because he gets off of work late at night and I'm usually sleeping. I will lay out all the options and see what we come up with.

I know girls who got their babies aborted and it made them really depresesed. Living with regret is not something I'm cool with.


Haha most def, you gotta share the love. ^.^

[Bubbles]

youll regret it when your child can barely think or absorb oxygen on its own because you smoked while pregnant.

[AbbyRoad]

us women are such hormonal creatures that even if you have a healthy baby your body can be so shocked by the birthing you fall into a deep dark depression, postpartum depression.
honestly, i support abortion in most situations. its an option that should never be taken off the table when a women gets "knocked up"
and plenty of women that give babies up for adoption regret that choice.

either way andria i think you and ricky will make a decision that is the best for the three of you...

and heres a happy story!
my best friend got knocked up by this total slime ball she was dating. they were binging on drugs together and basically fucking up her life. i didnt see her for months while they were dating.
but the moment she found out she was pregnant everything changed! she became almost a "super mom". she became her "old" self again, the person i loved. and with her daughter by her side she has grown into a even stronger wonderful woman.
but she was on drugs before she found out she was pregnant, but the doctors gave her shots to try and reverse any damage there may have been. but the father also suffers mental illness, so who knows what her daughter future will be like. either way i love them both.
the father is not around because he is a total fuckwad dead beat

[Bubbles]

ouuuuuuuchhhhh my back! i bent over to scratch my ankle and when i go back up i find it impossible to straighten my back at all because it fucking hurts! luckily its not the lower back that would hurt a hell of a lot more i bet..

[andriaSRH]

us women are such hormonal creatures that even if you have a healthy baby your body can be so shocked by the birthing you fall into a deep dark depression, postpartum depression.
honestly, i support abortion in most situations. its an option that should never be taken off the table when a women gets "knocked up"
and plenty of women that give babies up for adoption regret that choice.

either way andria i think you and ricky will make a decision that is the best for the three of you...

Aw thanks abbo, you made me all warm and fuzzy inside

and heres a happy story!
my best friend got knocked up by this total slime ball she was dating. they were binging on drugs together and basically fucking up her life. i didnt see her for months while they were dating.
but the moment she found out she was pregnant everything changed! she became almost a "super mom". she became her "old" self again, the person i loved. and with her daughter by her side she has grown into a even stronger wonderful woman.
but she was on drugs before she found out she was pregnant, but the doctors gave her shots to try and reverse any damage there may have been. but the father also suffers mental illness, so who knows what her daughter future will be like. either way i love them both.
the father is not around because he is a total fuckwad dead beat

I was talking to Ricky last night and he pretty much said that since this has happened we are both going to become "responsible adults and get our shit together." He is just looking for an excuse to not act like a 16 year old anymore. He always hates it when I go to raves, so I'm thinking him wanting to keep the baby is some kind of ploy to turn me into a "super mom".

[AbbyRoad]

im really glad that what i had to say helped you even in any small way

[(weedguru)scarf]

congrats andria... i hope that whatever decision you make works out for the best...
i cant imagine having to make that decision

[andriaSRH]

Thanks man. I hope everything works out too. I have a feeling that it will.

In other news...having to pee every 15 minutes is so lame! XD

[logically]

wow holy cow...

good luck andria!

I'm sure whatever happens will happen.

[WeedGuru_Flow]

I think I'm the only one that thinks this whole Andria baby thing isn't that sweet at all.

How old are you? 22 ?

I would kind of hate myself for being dumb enough not to use protection, that's throwing your life away.

[wgToonces]

Ouch... I get where you're coming from Flow but that's a pretty fuckin harsh way of saying it.

[Bubbles]

Ouch... I get where you're coming from Flow but that's a pretty fuckin harsh way of saying it.

doesnt matter cause hes right.

[wgToonces]

Could've worded it differently though.


Anyways, best of luck to you Andria.

[AbbyRoad]

flow you can go seriously fuck yourself over this one

i dont think its all sweet and warm fuzzies. i think its horribly frightening and confusing. i bet in reality andria is scared shitless, maybe she is hating herself right now.

the way i see it is, we dont have to be the ones to say that type of negative shite. we arent there. we dont know anything.

and 22 is not young to be having children. its an age where your body can safely bring the baby to full term and you are responsible enough to have the baby in the first place