Teenage pregnancy

[blazedsubaru]

lol since youve asked yes,
if a girl - kimberly
if a boy - kai

nice?

Im not leaving her, i love her too much to. As long as i see her i dont care what happens to me dudes. Weed will keep me going, i wont smoke indica coz that will make me lazy lol i need to be active. I was high last night with my mate alex... he was mumbling and said 'well least you dont fire blanks' lol

adoptions no option either, shes moving in with me. My room is like an apartment, mini kitchen/bathroom/lounge extending off my bedroom, in the garden so pretty much away from civilisation.

To be honest im not really scared of all this, i just feel... whatever will be will be sorta attitude. Infact i wanna see how i am as a father.

Dude. You're 15.
In my country you couldn't even get a job legally. How do you plan to make money to support this child? You can't raise a child off mom or dad's money. If I were 15 and my girl was pregnant, I would go crazy most likely.

But on that note, my buddy from the UK has a son named Kai.

[Bear]

1, i can get a job. I know plenty of people that would give me good jobs. My best friends dad is a builder and i work with him sometimes... Well ive been offered everyday, racks bout 75 quid a day. So that should be enough dude.

[blazedsubaru]

I don't mean to offend, at all.
If you think you can do it, that is your decision. Just know you are thinking for 3 now. You, your girlfriend, and your child.

[Bear]

i know... well four really. My girflriends eating for 2 and plus shes a greedy cow anyway when it comes to chocolate... lol

If she moves in ill have to clear my stash and etc. basically move and clean and spray, remove my doob ridden curtains.

my lil apartment in plain is here to be honest im quite lucky for this pad or id be screwed.

[blazedsubaru]

Are you going to be living on your own?

[Bear]

nah im living with my gf. Im lucky to have that oppertunity because most of the time the womans family does all the effort into taking care of the baby in underage pregnancy. Shes moving to mine in a few months. Im having to fit most things, ive ripped up all my carpet last night and today i have to lay down laminate flooring. Looks nice and alot of work. Im just thinking right now, not alot of people my age have to grow up as fast as me. I have to change into a 30 year old in 9 months.... jesus.

[Dakine]

I'd have killed to get away from my parents at 16, let alone 15. But im moving out week after next, so fuck em.

[IcIrIs]

i think most people wana move out when they are young.. im moven out but by the time i have the money saved to do it ill be about 18

[Bear]

its good man, i like it personally. The pads good, nice n clean. So im gonna have to go to my other smoking place, under the bridge next to a river thats filled with petrol... pretty trippy. lol

[SpRi7e]

I've never heard of kai before either...here's some good things you should think about for names...

something that isn't too different...try a common name, like harold...but not kumar (lol sry, had to say that)

If the name is easy to pick on
If the name sounds good with your last name
If you both like the name the most

Good luck on having the baby and I would try and save as much money as you possibly can. My only thing I have to say about it is...should of used the rubber

and one last thing about the whole naming thing

[Bear]

LOL hahahahahahahahahahahahaha


quality bloke

[hubcap]

he was mumbling and said 'well least you dont fire blanks'

Haha, quality stoner responce (8)

[Bear]

clever hubcap

Yeah i aint running out on no one. My mates say i should run to the hills but i remember so much when i was growing up without a mum or father just my grandparents... For me its putting something right. I envy the baby to be honest, it has a father WANTS to be with it but i feel proud of my decision. I dont want to run, my gf is the best thing to me... shes faithful, she always wants to be with me (some people would find that annoying but i love being with her aswell so perfect there). We only have arguements about mary jane... But we made an agreement that mary jane isnt aloud in the pad, certainly not around fetus, and a mile away from my pad.

Shes with me as we speak, were just sitting down... letting me smoke a good spliff coz im on weedguru has to be done eh fellas

She likes weed herself, because im a rastafarian i see weed as a total different thing. To me its holy... au natural

She really doesnt mean anything by the weed its just she wants this baby to be 'not a fucked up one' because weve both had a hard upbringing and not to influence him/her into anything.

[asswipe]

I think its such a big plus that you and you girlget along with eachother so well. Also a big plus that you have already settled down to the situation and even with the doobie in your hand look at this in a sober way. My respect for that dude. You have managed to find a solution to the housing problem, the weed problem, working on the money and so forth.

I can't know your innerthoughts, but as you informed us on it seems to me that this situation you're in doesn't have to be as afwul as people think it is. You pick it up really well, i'm sure tons of teenage parents can't handle situations like this and end up in a bad circuit or just mentally destroy themselves.

All I can say is that the real "trouble" still has to begin. Your still damn young and you gotta understand its gonna be hard times coming, I don't wanna sound negative but its not gonna be easy. And for that I wish you luck.. it'll work out man

and I think for you (or any other stoner) quittin weed doesn't have to better the situation. In times of specific need a fresh spliff is just the perfect solution.

cheers dude

[Bear]

thanks dude that means alot to me

Well im building a pad outback, its 50 percent done. Foundations are set, with walls (obviously), roof, insolation, eletrics and now im plastering. Ive read about 30 manuals for all these things, then laying down laminate flooring and buying my uncles couch for 50 quid (a three seater haha), tv is cool, wide screen.. building a mini kitchen, so im all good so far.