my girlfriend

eachu · Post by **eachu** » Mon Sep 12, 2005 5:20 am

wassup my fellow weedguru forum members this is my first post and i guess its gonna have to be a question for yall..
i need someone to talk to...
theres this girl that i love more than my life. i seriously will give up my life for this girl. she isnt the most attractive girl ive ever met but i still love her, more than anyone ive ever loved.. and im pretty sure the fact that she aint no drop dead gorgeous made me to love her personality more..... but by no means is she a bad looking girl... its just that there r some girls that are better looking then her...but anywho... weve been in a relationship for about almost 4 months now.... but we live a lil far away and its really hard for me to see her.. and we see about once a week.. but since like last month things have been different... she aint called me in like the last month... its gotta be me calling her everyday and then she tells this dude "love love you <<<3" on his myspace and she thinks i dont know about it... this dude goes to same school with her and their moms r real close and i guess he goes over her house like once a week.. and he and she have same golf swing coach and they practice together... its been like a month since she told me she love me... its always me saying i love her and then shes like yea... me too.. but she talks about him to me like if he just a friend to her... i really dont know what to do... i feel like im bein played.. but i still love her... but if i really find out that she was cheating on me with him i seriusly think i might really kill him or kill my self. and then yesterday when i was buzzed, i emailed her and told her that i really love her and told her to be real with me... and today she called me finally and asked me if i was alrite and really talked like she cared for me.... i even sent her flowers to her school and her teachers and freinds were jealous of her.. and on her myspace her best friend was like imo in concern with the flowers and him and her...
wow this post got outta hand quickly
but anywho.. what should i do... i really really love her.. and will give my life for her.. but i dont want her to be with anyone else... and the fact that she might be cheatin on me makes me really sad....... should i just aks her straight up if she cheatin on me or should i just question her... or should i dump her or what should i do.. i need some help

tokeaholic · Post by **tokeaholic** » Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:57 am

dude, i feel for yah, love is tricky i had a girl for 7 months and she was my goddamn life after she split i was lost and a still am a little bit but we all survive and you will aswell no matter what, what you need to do is phone her or meet with her and say listen i love you but i need to know where you stand with me and just be sweet not forceful say you love her no matter what (which im assuming is the case) and just love her, cause if you truely do her happiness is more important to you than anything, so yah just ask her, she'll be honest if you allow her to be and itll all work it self out weither its good or bad itll work its self out, dont go and kill yourself dude, especially over a woman, i kno its hard not to because weither a guy will admit it or not but pain is pain and when u love somin and it says no it hurts! but we live, learn and move on, and youll do the same thing either way!, so yah do whatcha gota do but respect is the key because she may come around and love you later on aslong as u stay a great guy for her

Post by **cutthecashflow** » Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:58 am

Do you love her or do you love the sex?

Ask yourself that first.

Scratch · Post by **Scratch** » Wed Sep 14, 2005 7:44 am

cutthecashflow wrote:Do you love her or do you love the sex?

Ask yourself that first.

Amen

Post by **WeedGuru_Flow** » Wed Sep 14, 2005 9:38 am

Scratch wrote:
cutthecashflow wrote:Do you love her or do you love the sex?

Ask yourself that first.
Amen

And In case the answer to that question is 'I love the sex' :

Its not a cool thing to say that, we respect women here

Scratch · Post by **Scratch** » Wed Sep 14, 2005 9:49 am

respect and love aren't the same thing

Post by **WeedGuru_Flow** » Wed Sep 14, 2005 5:31 pm

Scratch wrote:respect and love aren't the same thing

No, but you can either love a woman with respect, or not, and thats bad

herbal stu · Post by **herbal stu** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 12:13 am

Man look if you trust her forget about it nuf sed on the matter.

When you see her get her to look you in the eye and then say "I love you". She should still keep eye contact and say the same...EXACTLY THE SAME. If she says you too or anything like that then say whats up?? Ask about this guy get interested in her golf practice ask questions and pop a question in about him and his abilities at golf start asking loads of questions like that ask her how skool was tell her you seen this guys myspace or whatever it was and say he sounds cool. whether you mean it or not and that you wanna get to know him and a few more of her friends judge her responses and see where it goes on how you feel. BUT NEVER STRAIGHT OUT ASK HER SHE'LL HAVE THE UPPERHAND AS YOU SEEM NOT TO TRUST HER THEN WOMEN CAN DO THAT TURN IT AROUND ON YOU!

Weedguru Cusmar · Post by **Weedguru Cusmar** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 3:25 am

Flow wrote:
Scratch wrote:respect and love aren't the same thing
No, but you can either love a woman with respect, or not, and thats bad

lol just cause you love the sex doesn't mean you love the girl. At least i hope the girls i've had sex with didn't think i loved them

Post by **cutthecashflow** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 3:45 am

You never said it just to have sex did you?

Cause that isn't cool if you did.

Scratch · Post by **Scratch** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 10:16 am

"Give the people what they want"

Post by **WeedGuru_Flow** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 11:56 am

Cusmar wrote:
Flow wrote:
Scratch wrote:respect and love aren't the same thing
No, but you can either love a woman with respect, or not, and thats bad
lol just cause you love the sex doesn't mean you love the girl. At least i hope the girls i've had sex with didn't think i loved them

I dont have sex with girls I dont love

you manslut

Weedguru Cusmar · Post by **Weedguru Cusmar** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 1:36 pm

cutthecashflow wrote:You never said it just to have sex did you?

Cause that isn't cool if you did.

only if they said it first

Post by **cutthecashflow** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 2:23 pm

Man I've never told that to any girl. IMO love is way too strong of a word to be throwing around like that.

I had one girl tell me she loved me and I would'nt say it back to her no matter how pissed she got, cause well I wasn't in love.

tweedle · Post by **tweedle** » Thu Sep 15, 2005 2:56 pm

Flow wrote:I dont have sex with girls I dont love

you manslut

So what if your at a party and one random girl youve been talking to all night wants to have some sex? You gonna turn it down, didnt think so

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