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Shwoot · Post by **Shwoot** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 5:38 pm

K so I went to this party last night, and lately I've been going out with an open eye for girls. I meet this girl and we're hanging out the whole night. She's alot of fun, she's really cute, just awesome. I have a few girls to choose from right now, but I think she's the best choice. Sorry if that sounds sexist, but I don't mean it that way. I just like her more than the others.

I almost got some from her, but right after I find her in a bedroom and sit on the bed with her, some guy comes in and says we can't be in there, so damn. That's not the point anyway, I'm not looking for someone just to sex me up.

Later on she gets all depressed. I wanted to talk to her and see what's up, but a) Her ex-boyfriend was hanging around, and he's still really protective of her. He's a really cool guy, he wouldn't of kicked my ass or anythinng. I just didn't want to come on to strong, in case it bothered him, cuz he's a nice guy.
b) I'm still used to shit being with my ex gf. She's like afraid of any form of public relation, which I need to get out of my head.

I'm talking to her right now on msn, and she's telling me what's up. Apparently she's on a break with her current boyfriend. What she's telling me, the guy sounds like a total dick, like even worse than what I had to put up with. She's debating on getting back together with him, cuz she says she's not a strong person and wouldn't be able to handle it, and they've been together for over a year. I don't know what to do, like I don't want her to break up with this dick just because I said so. And it's not just cuz I'd like to hook up with her, but she shouldn't have to put up with that shit. I did, and it sucked, and it's not even as bad as what she has to deal with. I really don't know how to handle this.

BGDetroit · Post by **BGDetroit** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 5:41 pm

She jus another confused young brawd. She dont know what she wants so shes toying with both your head's. (The ones up there, Not under the belt.

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Cheeba · Post by **Cheeba** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 5:45 pm

Yeah mayne, just get her to tell you straight. Would you fuck her around like this?

Shwoot · Post by **Shwoot** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 5:47 pm

Cheeba wrote:Yeah mayne, just get her to tell you straight. Would you fuck her around like this?

Tell me what straight? She doesn't know what she wants.

Cheeba · Post by **Cheeba** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 5:50 pm

I suppose. She must know how she feels, deep inside, but I know some girls who dont let their feeling jump out at first. Just talk to her loads, get to know her well, get to be real close friends, then she will tell you what she really wants for you and her.

Scratch · Post by **Scratch** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 5:50 pm

You explain to her what she wants.

Seriously though, it's the best for her that way

Post by **Weedguru Higher** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 6:57 pm

If there are complications like this now, then imagine a few months down the road. Stay away from that relationship is my advice

jonny cockeral · Post by **jonny cockeral** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 8:00 pm

Cheeba wrote:Would you fuck her around like this?

nah, obviously not - but shes a lass and thats what they do

Cheeba · Post by **Cheeba** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 8:40 pm

Yeah. Iv been fucked around by enough girls in the past to know that if they start fucking me around, I know they aint worth the hassle.

blizzunt · Post by **blizzunt** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 11:33 pm

Scratch wrote:You explain to her what she wants.
Seriously though, it's the best for her that way

true that, girls know what they want. They want to hear it from the guy tho a lot of the time.

Post by **cutthecashflow** » Sat Aug 20, 2005 2:17 am

Find a different girl that one sounds like to much of a headcase.

Sat Aug 20, 2005 9:19 am

If you really like someone, you don't go off and find someone else just because there are a few complications, that's like cowardice. If you really like this girl, then her ex boyfriend shouldnt be able to stand in your way.

She's obviously uncomfortable with this guy, and needs someone better. If you feel like you could be that better person, then jus go for it!!

WidespreadDead · Post by **WidespreadDead** » Sat Aug 20, 2005 3:03 pm

Just tell her straight. tell her what you want and hopefully she can figure out what she wants

Shwoot · Post by **Shwoot** » Sat Aug 20, 2005 7:37 pm

blizzunt wrote:
Scratch wrote:You explain to her what she wants.
Seriously though, it's the best for her that way
true that, girls know what they want. They want to hear it from the guy tho a lot of the time.

Yeah I'd really like to do that. I just met her, and she wants to see me again I'll tell her soon, it just seems too early right now.

A_Fire_Inside wrote:If you really like someone, you don't go off and find someone else just because there are a few complications, that's like cowardice. If you really like this girl, then her ex boyfriend shouldnt be able to stand in your way.

She's obviously uncomfortable with this guy, and needs someone better. If you feel like you could be that better person, then jus go for it!!

That's what I'm thinking, like I can't just give up. If she's not worth it, then she'll give up on me, like my last relationship.

I don't think she's a nutcase, she's just attatched to this guy. I understand how she wouldn't want to give up their relationship when it's been going on for so long. I went through that, it's like just throwing away everything you've worked on.

I would treat her better than what she's getting now. Anybody deserves better than that. I think I just have to show her the right path...

blizzunt · Post by **blizzunt** » Sun Aug 21, 2005 2:52 am

Thats a good point too, dont lay it on too hard too soon. Sounds like youll be fine tho, good luck

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